I have problem accepting a Church teaching, and I’m trying to gain some insight. First of all, I’m a new, but faithful Catholic. I’m even discerning the priesthood/religious life, and plan on doing two-years of missionary work with the Capuchin Franciscans in Papua New Guinea.
My understanding is that eating meat on a Friday during Lent is a mortal sin. I have a very difficult time accepting this. I can’t see how the Lord of compassion and mercy would fling someone into an eternal lake of fire for eating meat on a Friday during Lent. It seems totally ridiculous and unreasonable to me.
Let me also say that I think the practice of not eating meat on Friday is a great spiritual practice, just not a grave matter. I personally try to abstain from meat and fast every Friday; I take it seriously, but it’s born out of love, not some grave obligation.
I am having a terribly difficult time accepting that God would view eating meat on a Friday during Lent a grave matter. At worst, I see it as a venial sin, and the worst it would do to a soul after death is extend their stay in purgatory.
This is only partly an issue of the intellect for me. It’s primarily a “gut” issue. Please help me out.