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I’ve been studying St. Thomas Aquinas Summa Theological and he says that Gossiping is a mortal sin. I’m totally on the same page with him on this issue, but the danger is it is so common in our society. And when things become common, people have a tendancy to diminish the graveness of such sin. Just wondering what you all think about that.
 
How does he define gossip?

Some people say it is talking about someone behind their back.

But we all do that don’t we? Even if it saying something nice about someone.

I would be interested in hearing how Thomas defined it.
 
I’ve been studying St. Thomas Aquinas Summa Theological and he says that Gossiping is a mortal sin. I’m totally on the same page with him on this issue, but the danger is it is so common in our society. And when things become common, people have a tendancy to diminish the graveness of such sin. Just wondering what you all think about that.
LOL this is a discussion board 😉
Is our casual talk on here a mortal sin?
 
Gossip, like most other sins, does quite genuinely have varying levels of seriousness. You need to look at the content of what’s said, the potential for damage to the person’s reputation etc, and the INTENT behind you saying or listening to it. The more harmful and the less charitable each of these is, the more serious the sin.

It’s like judging the difference between eating one cookie more than you strictly need and scarfing down a whole box of them in one sitting, or between taking a dollar from your mother’s purse and a thousand from your company’s bank account.
 
LOL this is a discussion board 😉
Is our casual talk on here a mortal sin?
I worry about that sometimes. For a brief while, I had my picture posted in my profile. Then I thought about all of the things I have said about my ex, and decided that was really not right to have anything that could identify who he was because I would certainly not go around telling everyone who knows us the things I have posted here. So, I took my pic down.

I really don’t know what the answer is though.
 
I do not think that gossip is necessarily a mortal sin; it, like any other mortal sin, has to meet the three tests of a mortal sin.

In other words, if the matter is not serious, and there is not a serious intent to harm, then I fail to see how gossip could be defined automatically as a mortal si.

It is possible to define it in such a way that it is always a mortal sin, but then would have to re-define what else is often called gossip, as the rest of the loose talk would have been defined out.

Having said that, it is a sin that is all too easy to engage in and not make an accounting of later.

An old, old story has the town gossip going to confession and confessing the sin; the priest, who has counseled the penitent many times previously feels he has been ineffective, so he crafts a new penance in hopes of getting the penitent’s attention. He tells them to teak a feather pillow and go up in the tower on a windy day and release the feathers, and then to go collect all of them.

The penitent protests that is not possible. The priest then tells tehm that it is easier to retreive the feathers than it is to undo the harm, and recover the gossip and repair the damage to the reputation of the one gossiped about.

Food for thought.
 
Good story otjm, thank you 🙂

I witness it every day and cringe. I am not perfect, I succumb to it myself on occasions but almost always recognize it and stop myself, because I don’t like the way it makes me feel inside when I’m doing it. It’s just not one of those things that comes naturally to me.

If more people didn’t do it so easily without a second thought, the world would probably be a kinder place. It comes down to the Golden Rule… if I don’t want others to do it to me, then I don’t do it to others.

Is it a sin? Yes, without a doubt. Mortal? probably not… but it has the potential to ruin lives… and that makes it pretty darn close if you ask me.
 
Gossiping is definitely wrong. I think the Catechism says something about it but I did a keyword search for Gossip and couldn’t find anything.
 
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