Has anyone ever challenged your Catholic Faith?

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Have any Protestants ever made fun of you for being Catholic? If so, how did you respond? What did you say in order to stand up for your beliefs? If anyone has any stories about this they would like to share, that would be appreciated. Thank You!!! 🙂
 
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It was towards the end of my first semester at college (a Catholic Univ) when something happened because I was a Catholic. I had three friends (two of them whom I knew since high school). They were Protestants and I was the only Catholic. We were eating in the cafeteria for lunch and at my university we have to take 2 religion course (I didn’t have the same religion courses as them). Two of the girls had to buy a Bible from the bookstore as the Priest who teaches that course uses only that Bible which has side notes. One of the girls asked why should I buy this stupid thing if I have one at home. I explained to her that the Catholic Bible has 73 books and the Protestant Bible has 66 books. She started to argue with me that you Catholics make up stuff which Christ has never taught… then the other friend of mine started to judge why we call Priests “Father”, pray to Mary and Saints, worship idols all that…
I got sad as I didn’t know the right explanations to these questions. When we got into our night class, one of the two girls who started to question me asked me in a funny way “How many books did you said that your Bible has?” I gave her an answer in a friendly manner.
I asked our chaplain and he told me: “You can’t be an ordinary Catholic at this time of the era, my child! Keep up your faith in the one true body of Christ!”
The third Protestant friend I had was silent when the other two were arguing with me. She respected my faith. Until now, I am close friends with her. She or her sister come with me to Mass or we even spend some time with Jesus in the Adoration Chapel! I never talked to both of the other girls, but don’t have any hatred towards them either… As Christians, we can’t hate anyone except the evil.
This incident not only taught me how much love and inseparable I was to the Catholic Church but also I was determined to read and understand the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Basically: I’m in love with Catholicism! I’m proud to be a Catholic! Also, it was after this incident, that I started to pray for all those who left the Church and pray for non-Catholics as well as non-Christians.
I’m also glad that I got to enjoy being at a Catholic University. I can go to Mass on all weekdays, go to Confession whenever my conscience tells me to go (easy to find our chaplain here), and spend time with Jesus on the Adoration Chapel in a Rectory near my University! God’s mercy!
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before the sex scandal, no. people had questions but were respectful.
 
I walk away from Protestant and non-believer haters. I pray for them but I also block them because hate and disrespect are wrong and I don’t need to expose myself to that garbage.

Most Protestants and nonbelievers respect others’ beliefs when conversing or dealing with them, so it’s only a small group who are a problem.

I blocked one yesterday. I have dealt with them enough over the course of years to know they have problems not only with organized religion, but with treating others kindly. That is the type of person you pray for and avoid. Some people just think it’s okay to make fun of others for laughs even though this is an adult in their 40s, not some 20-year-old.
 
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I’m harassed by a fellow at work as he knows I am in formation to be a permanent deacon. He will ask me " so you off to pedophilia 101 tonight?" and other crass comments. I try and remember they he is a child of God and he must has some issues he is dealing with. I have always treated him with kindness and try to see him as Jesus would see him. Over the years though, he has softened his stance and when some of the last issues in our diocese came out, he has remained silent. I’m wondering if possibly he was harmed previously in his life, or had someone who was.

I always just listen to what they say, be polite to them, and try and attract them with kindness. It’s hard to do at times, and as @(name removed by moderator) has listed above, you can’t slam them that their religion is wrong or they will just shut them down and you will lose them.

As Jesus said, pick up your cross and follow me.
 
It was actually a Muslim that did it, and it got me fired up and emotional about my faith…albeit temporarily (now I believe, but without that emotional connection)

I was forced to look up for arguments that defended my faith, and all of this convinced me more instead of convincing her. She wasn’t disrespectful or anything, she just kept insisting that Islam was the Truth.

I don’t really get into religious debates that often, because most people my age are abandoning their faith (21-23 years). But when they criticise, I just ask them a series of questions that would hopefully get them to question why they believe in their beliefs.
 
Small note here. If they are doing this at your workplace, chances are it is against policy, and/or the law. I would ask them to stop doing it a time or two, then speak to HR if they don’t calm down. If there is a time you can mention it to this person without an audience, the better. (They might not feel a need to defend without others seeing your admonition.)
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Thanks so much for sharing your story. Keep on standing up for the Catholic Faith!!! 🙂
 
We have some Protestant brothers and sisters who actually “protest” outside our church, saying we are going to Hell, carrying signs that say: “The Pope is the Antichrist,” etc. I like to talk to them and am very kind. I also know my faith and can go toe to toe with them on Scripture. I always invite them in to Mass and pray for them. Building bridges…responding to anger and ignorance with kindness.
 
Having spoken to them a few times, I really think they are concerned for our souls and trying to “save” us. We’re not sure why they’ve picked our church, or if they go to other Catholic churches as well.
 
I wouldn’t limit it to Protestants. I have been mocked by family and friends who were raised Catholics, by other people who consider themselves practicing Catholics, atheists, agnostics, etc

For example, I have Catholic relatives who mock me for going to confession.

I actually don’t tell most people that I go to church because I don’t want to argue. These are the same people who cannot handle that I am politically conservative. They belong to a church about which they have no knowledge and for which they have no respect.
 
@LikeaChild I’m so sorry to hear what you were going through. You’re doing an awesome job of sticking up for your beliefs. Keep fighting!!! 🙂
 
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One time during a Knights of Columbus Tootsie-Roll drive, a woman in the back seat of a car, (who was wearing a t-shirt bearing the name of a local, and vocal, Baptist Church) exclaimed loudly as they drove away, “salvation through works, right?!”

I was befuddled for a moment because I had no idea why she said that or what she meant. Evidently she thinks Catholics believe they will go to Heaven if they do good things, apart from grace from God. Which is Pelagianism, I believe. They were far down the road by the time I understood what she meant.

The only other person who has somewhat challenged me is my brother-in-law. Every now and then he will say something like, “what Catholics fail to understand is salvation is a free gift.” Or, “Catholics do whatever their Church tells them to do, instead of thinking for themselves.”

Most of what he says is out of pure ignorance. There is so much they do not know about Catholicism, and if they do not understand anything about Catholicism, they do not understand very much about Christianity as a whole. His daughter-in-law once reminded our kids to take their bibles and take notes at Mass. As if we sit and listen to the priest misinterpret scripture for an hour like the pastor at their Church. Yep, I used to have a bible with pages marked with every color of highlighter. Each color meant something at the time, but now I do not know what, thankfully.

Besides those cases, I haven’t had anyone challenge me. Maybe it is worse in the South?
 
Agreed. Not even the immature and stupid things my fellow 16/17 year old classmates say to me matches up to that.

It’s horrendous.
 
I’m not Catholic as you probably know, but I am more of a Catholic than I am a Protestant and attend Mass regularly. I am sometimes questioned about this attraction to the Church, and not always graciously. At such times I am proud to be a “Catholic enthusiast” and such attitudes toward me only to serve in strengthening my desire to remain so.
 
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