Dear Alix. I would like to suggest again, that if possible… you spend time before the Blessed Sacrament in Eucharistic Adoration. Check to see if your parish offers this. Many of them (if not most) do.
I’ve heard it said… that “Silence is the first Language of God”. And in silence, we are best able to hear His Voice… speaking to us. There is no more silent or serene place (in my humble opinion) than in the Presence of Our Eucharistic Lord.
Somehow, I don’t seem to hear the Lord’s Voice… with my ears. But rather, I “feel” the Lord’s Voice… in my soul. I don’t know if that is helpful to you… but that has been my experience.
God bless you!