Help! moral dilemma!

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Here’s the deal:

For the final paper in my college English class, we were supposed to go to a “field site” and observe some kind of culture then write about it. For example, we could go to a little restaurant and observe the surroundings, take notes, and we were also required to get at least 2 interviews with people from our “site.” We could observe anything that could be called a “culture.”

I chose the culture of life, the pro-life culture. I’m already part of the student pro-life group here on campus, and part of a prayer group that meets once a week to pray outside a local abortion mill. So I figured I could “observe” my own culture b/c I really wanted to write about it. The only thing is, at first my teacher told the class that we had to pick a culture of which we were not a part. Well, since I really wanted to write on the pro-life culture, I decided to specifically focus on pro-life pregnancy centers, since I was not part of that aspect of the pro-life culture.

I openly admitted in my rough draft that I was pro-life, but was curious to find out more about the pro-life pregnancy centers. This was fine, she had no problem with it. Here’s where the moral problem comes in:

The pregnancy center ended up not giving me near enough info to complete my project, so I decided I’d have to also write about the prayer group outside the clinic. The only thing is, I was already in that prayer group. So, I said in my paper that a worker at the pregnancy center told me about the prayer group, and that I decided to “go check it out.” This of course is not exactly true, since I’ve been part of the group for several months.

So, I told a (small) lie in my paper. But NOW my teacher is telling the class that it’s okay if we’re “members” of the culture we write about! That means I could’ve just said flat out from the beginning that I was a regular member of the group, rather than lying and saying that the pregnancy center told me about it.

Also, I “made up” an interview with one of my friends in the prayer group. By this I mean, I did not actually interview them, but wrote as if i had interviewed him, and I based the answers to the questions on previous conversations we’ve had. So I didnt make up his stance on things-- I believe i accurately depicted his stance, but I basically impersonated him. I was the interviewer and the subject:o By the way, he knows and he doesnt care. I told him the answers I gave on his behalf and he said he wouldve given those responses. But still, how bad is this? Is it a big deal or not?

What do I do?? I’m about to turn in a final draft today and I have a big decision to make: should I “come clean” about my interview that I was part of the prayer group and lied about the pregnancy center directing me there? Or should I just keep my paper the way it is, with a false statement about how I found the abortion prayer group and a false interview? How big a deal is this? Does this constitute lying?

If I change the paper, I’ll have to tell my teacher that I made up some stuff based on my previous knowledge of the pro-life culture. Is this worth risking my final grade? Help!
 
For the sake of your proper spiritual growth, you might wish to fess up and correct the paper or at least simply correct it before it’s read. I don’t predict any problem, as what you did was allowed despite your erroneous knowledge to the contrary. 😉

However, if you simply said that someone in the group told you about it etc etc, it doesn’t have to be lie. Non-disclosure isn’t technically a lie, even if on occasion it may be wrong, when someone has the right to the information or when you certify that yes, you are telling the whole truth - which is a lie in its own right, anyway.

Well, but when you say you were told by someone and decided to check it out while you in fact are a member, then even if it isn’t a lie, it’s quite a large misinformation. Perhaps ask a priest?
 
Heh UK guy!

I’ve got an idea …

Why don’t you try writing that portion of paper which you made up as being an “introductory story”, written in the 3rd person.

For Ex:

“A man went to speak with a pro life group. His curiosity having been aroused by what he saw inside, he then went out to speak with the people who were praying in front of the abortion mill.”

“There, he met up with a group who said ___ and told him ___ . His life was changed forever …”

“Well my friends, the above was a fictitious account of what probably goes on every day in the fight against the culture of death. What is most likely is happening right now in a city near you. I should know, as I have been working on these very same battle lines myself.”

“So here now is my story, and what I found out concerning the Culture of Life and those who are active in it.”

Would something like that work?

Hope it helps!

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UKcatholicGuy:
What do I do?? I’m about to turn in a final draft today and I have a big decision to make: should I “come clean” about my interview that I was part of the prayer group and lied about the pregnancy center directing me there? Or should I just keep my paper the way it is, with a false statement about how I found the abortion prayer group and a false interview? How big a deal is this? Does this constitute lying?

If I change the paper, I’ll have to tell my teacher that I made up some stuff based on my previous knowledge of the pro-life culture. Is this worth risking my final grade? Help!
“For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”

Right is right, even when it hurts. Yeah, I would say what you did constitutes lying, and this of course needs fixing, provided there’s still time. Submission’s hard, eh? 😉
 
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Also, I “made up” an interview with one of my friends in the prayer group. By this I mean, I did not actually interview them, but wrote as if i had interviewed him, and I based the answers to the questions on previous conversations we’ve had. So I didnt make up his stance on things-- I believe i accurately depicted his stance, but I basically impersonated him. I was the interviewer and the subject:o By the way, he knows and he doesnt care. I told him the answers I gave on his behalf and he said he wouldve given those responses. But still, how bad is this? Is it a big deal or not?
If you were my student and I found out after the fact that you had made up an interview and tried to pass it off as actual, you would certainly fail the course. That would be a very unethical thing to do.

On the other hand, if you were to footnote the interview and state that it is a fictional account based on past conversations, I would probably deduct a grade level for “lazy journalism.” (This is unless the assignment was such that a fictional interview of that nature would be allowed in the paper – for example, in a creative writing class.)

As for the rest, get busy revising! You told a small lie; the teacher changed the assignment after it was begun (which is a poor idea on the teacher’s part, but there you are).

As a result, your lie is no longer needed. Get rid of it. Your problem will be solved.
 
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