Help! Mortal sin

[Evania]

i love all of you people so much for caring for me to explain this all. I cannot believe how much time you all have taken into giving me the real truth and response. I went to confession today and was there for almost 20 minutes with the priest. I am now in a state of grace and i feel so good! I am going to tell the woman today that I don’t want to burn in hell for all eternity…

i will start praying more and going to adoration. Please keep on praying for me everyone I truly appreciate it

thank you so much!!!

Woo Hoo! Celebrating!

 

[capricacity]

thanks Evania. Please pray that I remain strong and not fall again. I’m just going to have to deal with this lonely feeling for a while, even though i know its not true and that i really had to cut things off with this lady in order to await for whoever God is going to put in my life

 

[Evania]

thanks Evania. Please pray that I remain strong and not fall again. I’m just going to have to deal with this lonely feeling for a while, even though i know its not true and that i really had to cut things off with this lady in order to await for whoever God is going to put in my life

I will definitely keep praying for you! No matter what you sacrifice, God will not be outdone in generosity. He’s by your side.

 

[PJM]

=capricacity;13490070]2 nights ago, I screwed up big time…well…I slept with this girl… i knew it was bad…but i was weak and i fell. the thing is, after the act i always feel so terrible and guilty. I wish that I would feel like that before the act always so that I won’t have that physical need to sleep with her (she’s not my wife…just a friend and its purely physical…I’m 29, she’s 42…i know…that’s why it wont work etc)

with that aside. I called a priest today for confession. He said he won’t be free till tomorrow at 2pm. So i booked it with him. So here’s the deal… i made an act of contrition on my own, went to mass and received communion.

question 1: did i commit a mortal sin by receiving Communion?
question 2: did i commit a mortal sin by going to mass?
question 3: if i were to die before going to confession tomorrow? will i go straight to hell and be engulfed in everlasting flames, fire and tortured by demons for all eternity?
question 4: after i go to confession., i still will have this urge to have sex with her again, but i will try not to, but the urge is so strong…it’s crazy…but i know its wrong and totally sinful…

This stuff really scares me. It really does, It’s crazy how an act like sex outside of marriage can result in you burning in a lake of fire for all eternity. I do think its not fair but I DO BELIEVE it is 100% true. I feel terrible for what i did, just sometimes I just get urges. i wish they werent there because it’s not like i want to be sinning you know? I just cant help my biology,…something i had no choice over…

with that said,

The Code of Canon Law states:

A person who is conscious of grave sin is not to celebrate Mass or receive the body of the Lord without previous sacramental confession unless there is a grave reason and there is no opportunity to confess; in this case the person is to remember the obligation to make an act of perfect contrition, which includes the resolution of confessing as soon as possible. (CIC 916)

so if i commit a mortal sin I shouldnt go to church ? I thought that i would still be required to go to church but not recieve communion…im so confused…

Going to Mass NO!

Going to Communion MOST LIKELY [you seem to be aware that it would/could be

Making an act of PERFECT Contrition [for love of GOD; NOT fear of hell] covered you until you got to your appointment; so long as you didn’t fink out of it.

God READS our hearts.

A Condition of EVERY good [valid and licit] Confession is to make a “FIRM PURPOSE OF AMENDMENT” ; which is to say: a sincere effort NOT to commit that sin again and TO AVOID THE NEAR OCCASION OF THAT SIN IN THE FURTURE:thumbsup:

God Bless you