Help! Not me anymore

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Thank you for this. I never thought about it that way. I have been asserting myself a little more. Standing up to him and trying to do thing on my own. I am also saving up money so i can get some to teach me to drive. Im tired of waiting for him to do it. Just need to pick myself up and get like my mom would of said get a backbone. I need to start being an oak and a willow.
 
Two years a go i would either walk, take the bus, or he would take me. School was done online so i could do it when i can home from work and still be home with my kids. Mass was a rarity, andnow its even more rare, so speaking to priest is nearly impossible.

Things are getting better. We are having a more open communication than before. Lets hope it last.
 
I’m a little unclear on the timeline 🙂

You said two and a half years ago you were in a good place psychologically ?
When did you get married, when did you have your daughter and when did you all move in with your dad?
 
Sorry if I asked this before…

it, did this begin when your mother died? (Please, accept my condolences). Because it could be that your husband saw your friends reaching out to you in sympathy, and he may have felt ‘left out’ or ‘abandoned’.

What about your father? Did you move in with him to help out? Can he live on his own now? Can you?

Have there been any other traumatic or sad events in the past two years? It may feel to your husband, that he has to isolate you! He doesn’t. Don’t let him.

May God bless you as you move on…
 
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