HELP! Struggle with masturbation

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I have been struggling with masturbation for the past 4 years now. Just recently I couldn’t go to confession this Sunday after I have once again relapsed last week. Now it’s like all my resolve has fallen. I can’t get through a single day without relapsing. Help!
 
As with any bad habit, you have to make a firm decision that you do not want to continue any longer. But from a spiritual standpoint, you must be able to understand the agony Jesus was caused for the sake of our sins. Every one of us has nailed him to the cross by our sins. If you take this seriously enough, you will stop. If not you will keep relapsing.

Also, cut out any porn, lustful thoughts, fornication, etc. because they will be the death of your soul if you allow them to continue. I’m not sugar coating this because I don’t want to downplay the seriousness of this matter. God loved you enough to die for you, so please, love him back enough to stop hurting him. This has to be a conscious choice. You are allowing your passions to control you instead of using your intellect to control your passions. I’ll pray for you. Please make sure to pray the Rosary daily. Don’t miss a day. Mary will save you.
 
I have tried that but it had only made me think of masturbation more. I find that the best course of action would be ignoring sexual images altogether. Most of the time my mine usually wanders off during times in my day when I have nothing to do. E.g in a boring class or after school. A shower usually helps but I don’t know many prayers to help.
 
Know that your body actually holds the Temple of the Holy Spirit within you that is meant to be guarded away from any toxicity lurking around. Honestly, what works for me is to pray out loud a few Hail Mary’s (since the devil hates the name of Mary) and praying out loud what I’m thinking, experiencing in the moment, & asking God to help me refrain myself from doing that… when I do pray before deciding to commit that mortal sin again, prayer does seem to overpower that pleasure from happening. I tend to fall prey of this mortal sin when no one is around and I too have nothing to do- however, the more I invite Jesus & Mary into my daily struggles & all life experiences, the lesser this sin occurs because thinking of Them with me in everything, even those sinful moments to me is embarrassing that while They are with each of us presently, here I am sometimes still committing the same sin with Them with me… now it’s rare that I commit that mortal sin- it’s extremely embarrassing and irritating having to go to Confession to the same priest- which in a way also continues to prevent me from committing the sin often, because I don’t like having to confess the same sin over & over again. Each of us were created for more than objectifying ourselves- we are loved & cared for unconditionally by God & He deserves us to be chaste of our bodies, mind, & spirit respectfully.
 
This is a really common problem. It doesn’t mean you’re a sex addicted deviant. It’s problematic because it’s a mortal sin and definitely interferes with getting to communion and staying in a state of grace. Definitely remove triggers! Sparingly watch tv or using internet. Being busy helps but it’s not a silver bullet. It’s gonna be a multi pronged attack. Keep up with the confession too! But don’t run yourself ragged. You’ll be dealing with this for a long time.
 
Try saying this prayer over and over whenever you feel tempted.
Maybe it will help refocus your thoughts.

Prayer for Chastity

Lord, inflame my heart and my inmost being with the fire
of Your Holy Spirit, that I may serve You with a chaste body
and pure mind. Through Christ our Lord. Amen. ✝️
 
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