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superblue
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How annoying is it, when people in real life or online go out of their way to specifically tell you what they think either what your problem is or what you should be doing or something of the sort. As if it is going to help the situation or have the person go, oh well gee since you put it that way.
To reduce someone to your own personal assumptions as if one is now some mystical sooth sayer that has this special almighty ability to just see an know a person from a few encounters in real life or online and then assume that one has the responsibility to run their mouth and run the risk of getting dropped like a bag of bricks.
Why do people feel that need, to be like that; is it some superior syndrome and the need to drag a person down to their level.?
An then if you tell the person , look im not forcing you to listen to me or be my friend or even like me, just let me live my life and leave me alone and I wont drop you like a bag of bricks and or send you to the hospital, that person then gets sooooooooo upset that they turn into a giant drama queen or something.
Personal space, i find to be tricky to understand, you invite a person so far into your personal space and all of a sudden people feel they either completely know you after a few moments of interaction or even a few months. But never consider may be I or others are simply letting you into their personal space and letting one see what he or she wants you to see. I find these behaviors worse online, People assume so much with out considering context and or reading something with out the ability to just read something and move on. It isn’t like one reaches out to an online news writer or blogger, or heck even a local paper to go on some kind of rant to tell said person what they think of them. So why is it so easily to do online or in person at times, is it because it is easier ? An one feels they have a captive audience. ?
{ disclaimer, this is merely a thread, not a personal attack on anyone or the church, feel free to disagree or cry and whine about anything I just said, and or hit the flag button, I don’t know why people still feel the need to reply to me if I am soo offensive to them I leave a disclaimer to be as clear as possible that this is an open forum, that freedom of speech exists, that I am merely stating what i think or feel and that one is better off just changing the channel like you do on tv or the radio instead of trying to make some kind of vendetta against me or trying your best to troll me, it wont work, i don’t read any of it and i wont engage in it, i merely get the lil blue button that says someone tried to respond an occasionally the funny green notice that says i earned another flag. why is it so hard to grow up an stop seeking my attention}
To reduce someone to your own personal assumptions as if one is now some mystical sooth sayer that has this special almighty ability to just see an know a person from a few encounters in real life or online and then assume that one has the responsibility to run their mouth and run the risk of getting dropped like a bag of bricks.
Why do people feel that need, to be like that; is it some superior syndrome and the need to drag a person down to their level.?
An then if you tell the person , look im not forcing you to listen to me or be my friend or even like me, just let me live my life and leave me alone and I wont drop you like a bag of bricks and or send you to the hospital, that person then gets sooooooooo upset that they turn into a giant drama queen or something.
Personal space, i find to be tricky to understand, you invite a person so far into your personal space and all of a sudden people feel they either completely know you after a few moments of interaction or even a few months. But never consider may be I or others are simply letting you into their personal space and letting one see what he or she wants you to see. I find these behaviors worse online, People assume so much with out considering context and or reading something with out the ability to just read something and move on. It isn’t like one reaches out to an online news writer or blogger, or heck even a local paper to go on some kind of rant to tell said person what they think of them. So why is it so easily to do online or in person at times, is it because it is easier ? An one feels they have a captive audience. ?
{ disclaimer, this is merely a thread, not a personal attack on anyone or the church, feel free to disagree or cry and whine about anything I just said, and or hit the flag button, I don’t know why people still feel the need to reply to me if I am soo offensive to them I leave a disclaimer to be as clear as possible that this is an open forum, that freedom of speech exists, that I am merely stating what i think or feel and that one is better off just changing the channel like you do on tv or the radio instead of trying to make some kind of vendetta against me or trying your best to troll me, it wont work, i don’t read any of it and i wont engage in it, i merely get the lil blue button that says someone tried to respond an occasionally the funny green notice that says i earned another flag. why is it so hard to grow up an stop seeking my attention}