How can I appeal to a Catholic guy I like?

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I like this one catholic guy, and he’s the only catholic guy in my school. He’s a good catholic and his personality and his morals really peaked my interest. I’m a shy person to begin with, but I don’t want to keep doing nothing. I sometimes preach on my snap chat because my school doesn’t have a very big Christian population (but we do have people who claim to be christian but don’t follow because they just inherited their parents’ faith). He saw one of my snaps about sexual immorality and started asking me for help. I was so happy because all I hear in my school is how xxxx wants to get in xxxxx’s pants. It was a breath of fresh air and I was so happy to help him improve his faith because he never knew it was wrong and he’s now trying to be a chaste teen too. We talked one other time and he asked a faith related question, but how can I talk to him? I’m always happy to preach, but I’m so shy around guys. He’s a rare find and I’m too shy to not make a move… Any advice on Catholic dating?
 
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I think you need an ice breaker…how asking him to go to a parish function…that you may be involved with…or volunteer together…like a feeding of the poor, clean up after soup supper…
 
pablope said:
I think you need an ice breaker…how asking him to go to a parish function…that you may be involved with…or volunteer together…like a feeding of the poor, clean up after soup supper…
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This reply ought to close the discussion. There’s really no advice you’ll get from this point forward that will be any better. 😀
 
It is a very great reply, but I’m so nervous to talk to him better yet invite him to anything like that >.< He talks to other girls, whom I know aren’t Christian, and I feel like they’re better than me because they get this time…
 
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It is a very great reply, but I’m so nervous to talk to him better yet invite him to anything like that >.< He talks to other girls, whom I know aren’t Christian, and I feel like they’re better than me because they get this time…
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Bring a church bulletin with you…show it to him…and say…I plan on going to so so…would you like to?
But pray first and pray for him…👍🙏
 
A more casual way to ask him somewhere would be to talk to him about an event that interests you and your plans for going. If he’s interested in it too or interested in you, he might start asking questions at which point you can invite him. Maybe he will be so interested he will invite himself!
 
Nothing’s more attractive - than someone who is faithful to their belief.
That - puts you - far - from the others.

I think of the movie The Ten Commandments …
And one of the daughter’s ( 10 daughters ) …

Oh, here’s the scene 😇

 
My advise is take a step back and think about humanity in general. All human beings are equal in general except for a few parts and a testosterone/estrogen fuel. Everybody suffers from the same fear and goes through the same suffering as everybody else, there is no difference from male to female except the physical, other then that just talk to him and invite him to something like @pablope said. inside all people are the same.
 
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Well, this boy has already worked up the courage to speak to you, so he will likely be thrilled if you approach him in return!

As for Catholic dating, realize that it is primarily meant to lead towards marriage. Being in school, marriage is still many years away. So take things slow. It is really a low pressure situation, to get to know each other and enjoy each other’s company, and work together to grow in faith.
 
Lara said:
The thing to do is bake some barbecue chicken wings and find a way to be eating them just when he happens by.
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Speaking as a boy, that’s a good approach 🙂

The ultimate answer, though, to any question about getting a guy’s attention, is, of course, freshly baked chocolate chip cookies–we all fall for that . . .

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It somewhat depends on your age for starters.

If you could think of some common interest that would be a point of departure in your brain storming.

Maybe just talk to him more. 🙂
 
I was actually going to say that as well. I will talk to any girl who gives me food. 😉
 
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