How can I become a good Catholic man?

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I just want to be a good, holy catholic man. What are some things I can do daily that will help me achieve this? What are some goals I can make for the next year? What should I take on or give up?
 
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Love our Lord with all your heart.
Love your neighbor.
Pray the rosary.
Go to confession regularly.
Go to mass every Sunday and Holy Day of obligation.
Spend time in Adoration.
Rinse and Repeat.
 

Corporal Works of Mercy​

feed the hungry
shelter the homeless
clothe the naked
visit the sick and imprisoned
bury the dead
give alms to the poor

Spiritual Works of Mercy​

instruct
advise
console
comfort
forgive
bear wrongs patiently
 
Follow a prayerful day and your life will change. Prayerfulness becomes as natural as breathing.

The moment you wake up, thank God for that favor and seek his guidance throughout the day. Pray before a holy picture or statue, or visualize something holy in your mind’s eye in order to start your day. If time is of the essence, pray to God, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit as you shower and dress. Ask for intercession from your guardian angel.

Always pray before and after meals, as well as before sleeping and upon waking. There are prayers that you can say while you read them aloud, or that you memorize, but when time is of the essence, your own words are fine; just do it! Something is always better than nothing.

As you head out the door for school or work, ask God to let your car be safe, to save you from an accident, and to guide the decisions of all drivers. If it starts to rain, or sleet, or snow, ask your guardian angel to be extra alert and ask that God make all drivers extra alert. Lol! I know it sounds crazy, but I also add, “Hail Mary, full of grace, help me find a parking place,” and I almost always find a spot close to the door of my destination! My Aunt Mary Catherine taught me that! God rest her soul!

When you pass a roadside cross indicating that someone died involving a vehicle, and you’re too busy driving to concentrate on anything else, or you can’t remember the standard prayers that we say for the dead, at least say something—“Save their soul(s) and comfort their family(ies)” is better than whizzing on by without a positive thought for them.

When you pass a Catholic Church, a crucifix, a cemetery, a funeral home where people have obviously gathered, a traffic accident, fire trucks, police cars, a hospital, a nursing home, a child care center, a school, priests or nuns walking, a funeral cortege, or anything similar, utter a quick prayer for them. “Please let no one be hurt or killed.” “Please protect them.” “Please accept my plea on their behalf.” “Please grant them emotional strength to deal with this.” “Thank you for sparing my family.”
—You get the idea. I was taught to nod my head and make the Sign of the Cross, or, at least, trace a cross upon my forehead, and say, “Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,” when passing a Catholic Church, cemetery, priests, or nuns.

Use holy water from a font beside the front door or your bedroom door or from a bottle. Each night, study an examination of conscience and your behavior and thoughts for that day. Make a good Act of Contrition. Go to Confession whenever you’ve stained your soul with mortal sin. Whenever it’s possible, receive Holy Communion, visit Jesus in Adoration, and say a rosary.
 
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I attended TMIY (That Man Is You) at my church and there’s several good points, often with quantitative data as to what and why you should do or not do certain things. The greatest thing I took from it was a group of men whom all share predominantly the same feelings. The camaraderie and exercises we shared together were great, the videos evoked deep thoughts and the breakfast they put together was excellent as well. Unfortunately after moving 18 months ago, the nearest church is too far away coupled with the fact that the program is only two years and I had been through the whole thing already, that part of my Wednesday mornings is gone but not forgotten. If you have the ability to participate in a program near you I would highly recommend it.
 
These, and surround your self with practicing Catholic men, join the Knights of Columbus!
 
I come from a family of (not really practicing) Catholics and culture however I think my dad does a lot of Catholic things even if he doesn’t attend Church etc.
I am blessed that my elderly father is still with me today so I would like to honour my father by suggesting to do a few of the things he does:

• Be humble
• Care for your children. Show concern, have a giving heart and be generous to them (if have any children).
• Make sacrifices for your wife and children.
• Never take your self too seriously and keep a sense of humour.
• Help others where can (Eg:my dad was once selling a picture of Jesus and a very religious man asked about it. My dad could see how much he wanted it so he gave it to him for free).
• Have humility to say sorry when have hurt another
• Have an excellent work ethic and provide for your family
• Be honest and trustworthy to your wife or girlfriend
• Have a sense of “social justice” and be passionate to want the same opportunities for the poor as for the wealthy.
• Lead your family. Protect your family. Love your family

I’m sure the lists could go on and on how to be good Catholic man.
Eg: prayer and obedience to God, not be superficial, be compassionate and giving, communicate well and try to avoid arguments, help those less fortunate or who are often unloved (homeless, people with mental illness etc), value the elderly etc …

I am sure other posters will have a lot more suggestions:)
 
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