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St.Gimp
Guest
Recently I moved into a new area, and am currently looking for a new parish to join. The parish where I was received into the Church was a middle-of-the-road Novus Ordo community, which I liked well enough. It was probably on the conservative side of the “American Church” spectrum, but not excessively so.
However, for a while now I have been visiting a variety of parishes, including one that says the Tridentine Mass every Sunday and a Maronite Cathedral. I’ve been considering applying for membership at the Tridentine parish, but I’m afraid that I might be motivated by pride and security more than anything else. It makes me feel holier to attend there, and it feels “safe” from the liturgical abuses in many NO parishes. These don’t seem like the best of motives.
(I’m not seriously considering joining the Maronites, since it would require switching rites, but I will likely attend there on occasion, regardless.)
But just yesterday I was in a local NO parish — which I had found due to its hosting an Irish Fair — and was disturbed by the irreverence of the people in the pews talking before Mass, when the priest came up to the podium and roundly chastised everyone for talking when they should be praying. I have never seen a priest stand up in front of the congregation and tell them to respect the ordinances of the Church like that (except at the Tridentine parish). So now I’m fluctuating between this parish and the one providing the Tridentine Mass.
Either way, I will continue making the occasional visit to parishes of varying rites and liturgies, but I need to find a home. I am not married, so this decision only affects me. At this point I realize that I will never find the “perfect parish,” but I don’t want to make a decision I’ll be sorry for later.
Is it better to stay with the majority of Catholics in the NO so I don’t feel segregated from the rest of the Church, or should I go with a place that’s more consistently solid and reverent (even if I have a hard time following the liturgy)?
However, for a while now I have been visiting a variety of parishes, including one that says the Tridentine Mass every Sunday and a Maronite Cathedral. I’ve been considering applying for membership at the Tridentine parish, but I’m afraid that I might be motivated by pride and security more than anything else. It makes me feel holier to attend there, and it feels “safe” from the liturgical abuses in many NO parishes. These don’t seem like the best of motives.
(I’m not seriously considering joining the Maronites, since it would require switching rites, but I will likely attend there on occasion, regardless.)
But just yesterday I was in a local NO parish — which I had found due to its hosting an Irish Fair — and was disturbed by the irreverence of the people in the pews talking before Mass, when the priest came up to the podium and roundly chastised everyone for talking when they should be praying. I have never seen a priest stand up in front of the congregation and tell them to respect the ordinances of the Church like that (except at the Tridentine parish). So now I’m fluctuating between this parish and the one providing the Tridentine Mass.
Either way, I will continue making the occasional visit to parishes of varying rites and liturgies, but I need to find a home. I am not married, so this decision only affects me. At this point I realize that I will never find the “perfect parish,” but I don’t want to make a decision I’ll be sorry for later.
Is it better to stay with the majority of Catholics in the NO so I don’t feel segregated from the rest of the Church, or should I go with a place that’s more consistently solid and reverent (even if I have a hard time following the liturgy)?