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Igor90
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We’ve all read questions and stories by people who experience hurtful words and/or actions from others, their kin included. But dealing with people who by no means hurt you or even want to but still make you literally shake with their silly features, behaviors, idiosyncrasies and basically their views and words you can’t help but find idiotic is another pair of shoes.
I am a short-tempered guy and it’s really easy to get on my nerves. Matter of fact, it’s rather an exception than a rule for me to actually like somebody. On the other hand, though, I do my best to make sure I am not the irritating one.
That being said, do you have any ideas what (apart from prayer, obviously) might do the trick here? I try to love such people and not let my anger show but sometimes even the smallest trifle can make me boil inside. Of course I try not to pay heed but it’s easier said than done. And I guess talking to them is not worth it, as a) I do not have to spend any time more than necessary with most of them b) it would only ignite a conflict that would otherwise remain non-existent.
Thanks a lot!
I am a short-tempered guy and it’s really easy to get on my nerves. Matter of fact, it’s rather an exception than a rule for me to actually like somebody. On the other hand, though, I do my best to make sure I am not the irritating one.
That being said, do you have any ideas what (apart from prayer, obviously) might do the trick here? I try to love such people and not let my anger show but sometimes even the smallest trifle can make me boil inside. Of course I try not to pay heed but it’s easier said than done. And I guess talking to them is not worth it, as a) I do not have to spend any time more than necessary with most of them b) it would only ignite a conflict that would otherwise remain non-existent.
Thanks a lot!
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