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dizzy_dave
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I am a big time sinner who is trying to change his ways, how do I change myself? How do I soften my hardened heart?
Dear dizzy_dave,I am a big time sinner who is trying to change his ways, how do I change myself? How do I soften my hardened heart?
Anyway, my answer would be, in part, reading: it deepens my understanding and opens me up to the truth. St. Padre Pio said we should do some spiritual reading daily (in addition to our prayers).
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There’s a huge amount of importance in this, I found by experience. At one time I used to do a lot of spiritual reading, and then I left off, more or less. And looking back, I realise it was the underlying reason for my backsliding.
We need to read spiritual books to feed our souls. It can/should be scripture, and also anything we find nourishing. We don’t need to read a lot - we can read till something strikes us and uplifts us, and that will often move us to pray, at which point, stop reading for as long as we want, to reflect over what we just read and pray about it.
I think this is the principle behind “lectio divina”
Dear dizzy_dave,
It’s hard to tell from here. What is hard about your heart? Is it refusal to accept certain doctrine or teachings? Is it grudges against other people or feeling superior to them? Clinging to certain destructive habits?
There are many ways of going about it. You’ve taken the first step and asked for help. I’m certainly not a certified expert, but I’ve softened in a lot of ways in my relationship with many people I used to feel very victimized by. That’s why I ask for more information; not necessarily the gory details if you don’t want to disclose but at least a general category.
Alan