How do you 'feed the sheep'?

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I would love to know how other working Catholics fulfill their desire to volunteer, evangelize, teach , minister…

My parish has a large volunteer base , but almost every activity is between 8-4 weekdays when working people like me can not participate. I have found other avenues to volunteer, but would like to be able to do something at my own parish, what are other working people doing?
 
While I do firmly believe the Gospel calls us to serve others, I think “feed my sheep” refers to the vertical relation of priest to laity in a spiritual sense.

That being said, if you’d ever like to volunteer and you live by an urban area soup kitchens and food pantries have pretty much round the clock chances for volunteering.
 
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That being said, if you’d ever like to volunteer and you live by an urban area soup kitchens and food pantries have pretty much round the clock chances for volunteering.

Thank you for your reply. I tried to make it clear, but failed, that I have found, and participate in, plenty of avenues for volunteering ( special Olympics, suicide call center, a local pro life center ) but I would like to be able to do something in my own parish. I was hoping that some other working Catholics, with limited time available, would give me some ideas of what they are doing in their churches.
 
Be a substitute CRE teacher. Offer to lead a prayer/Bible study group that meets once a month. Help with the altar linens one week out of the month. Mentor a special needs child with their catechism. Make meals for the sick, visit the sick. Offer to bake cookies for the Youth Group. Make a new friend at the nursing home and visit them on regular days for 1/2 hour. Smile always. Pray unceasingly.
 
Be a substitute CRE teacher. Offer to lead a prayer/Bible study group that meets once a month. Help with the altar linens one week out of the month. Mentor a special needs child with their catechism. Make meals for the sick, visit the sick. Offer to bake cookies for the Youth Group. Make a new friend at the nursing home and visit them on regular days for 1/2 hour. Smile always. Pray unceasingly.
To add to this great list:
Chaperone youth activities (most are usually after hours)
Eucharist to the home bound (should fit anyone’s schedule)
Set up a weekly adoration hour (who knows what this could turn into…)
 
There are always opportunities at the weekend, during, before and after mass, even in a thriving church e.g. Meeter & Greeter, Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion, reader, counter of money, counter of attendees (needed in the UK due to changes in Gift aid giving) etc etc.

Have a close look at the volunteer list, are the same names cropping up? If so, it may mean that you volunteering, will enable someone to give up a task or to work on a new project.
 
I think it would be unfortunate for this thread to close or go inactive without recognition that many Parishes have very little external charity functions–which I think the Catholic structure seems primarily to delegate too much to Catholic Charities. In our Diocese there is a unit of Catholic Charities which has a title (I can’t remember exactly) suggesting the unit coordinates and guides Parish charitable activities–which seems to me a great concept, but unfortunately in practice the unit has a very small staff with little function except a small food-gathering activity (which of course is important and better than doing nothing). But I think most Parishes, expecially small ones, need some guidance and encouragement from the Diocese (we all understand how overloaded most pastors are) by helping to organize charitable activities. Our Parish has mostly internal activities with very little outreach to non-Catholics, and little chance for non-Catholics to participate. Yes we have a parish food pantry, and we do invite Church neighbors to a few dinners (if they pay) and to a couple of penny-sale type activities (where church members can volunteer evenings and weekends) and an annual picnic, and maybe once a year a concert and/or a retreat. And we have a very few volunteers who respond when a family specifically requests assistance from the Parish–but no active volunteer group to offer assistance either to members or neighbors, which I think we should be doing. Another existing volunteer program is greeters at Mass. I too would like to hear of other ideas and activities for volunteer programs, especially concerts, retreats, pilgrimmages, and ecumenical events where we can celebrate our Christianity (most of what we have is directed by the Diocese).
 
I think it would be unfortunate for this thread to close or go inactive without recognition that many Parishes have very little external charity functions–which I think the Catholic structure seems primarily to delegate too much to Catholic Charities. In our Diocese there is a unit of Catholic Charities which has a title (I can’t remember exactly) suggesting the unit coordinates and guides Parish charitable activities–which seems to me a great concept, but unfortunately in practice the unit has a very small staff with little function except a small food-gathering activity (which of course is important and better than doing nothing). But I think most Parishes, expecially small ones, need some guidance and encouragement from the Diocese (we all understand how overloaded most pastors are) by helping to organize charitable activities. Our Parish has mostly internal activities with very little outreach to non-Catholics, and little chance for non-Catholics to participate. Yes we have a parish food pantry, and we do invite Church neighbors to a few dinners (if they pay) and to a couple of penny-sale type activities (where church members can volunteer evenings and weekends) and an annual picnic, and maybe once a year a concert and/or a retreat. And we have a very few volunteers who respond when a family specifically requests assistance from the Parish–but no active volunteer group to offer assistance either to members or neighbors, which I think we should be doing. Another existing volunteer program is greeters at Mass. I too would like to hear of other ideas and activities for volunteer programs, especially concerts, retreats, pilgrimmages, and ecumenical events where we can celebrate our Christianity (most of what we have is directed by the Diocese).
My sentiments exactly! My teenaged daughter goes to a “nondenominational” church youth group and tomorrow morning is going to a non-denom service. These two churches have tons of groups and ministries in our community. They go on mission trips, including one to Ethiopia she is interested in this summer. The teen groups are active, as are the men’s groups, etc. We can’t say that for our parish. Our LifeTeen group is tiny and my daughter did not like going any of the times she tried it.

Myself, I’m trying to re-vamp our mom’s group to be more service-oriented and go deeper into spiritual studies, including a Bible study the first quarter of this year.

It’s a bit frustrating to my girls and I. We’re all service- and mission-oriented and don’t feel like we’re getting it at our local Roman Catholic parish. I’m converting (if this dad blame annulment ever gets done!). My younger daughter prefers her dad’s “Fort God” non-denom Sunday school because it’s not, as she puts it, “a grumpy CCD teacher who just hands out worksheets and fusses at us.” She’s getting, in her words, “spiritually fed” at her dad’s church. My older teen loves, loves her youth group.

I’m wondering how we can, as Catholics, offer this level of community involvement, without compromising any of our identity. Maybe it’s just this area, with its smaller Catholic presence. I just know we’re losing out to other churches in the area. I’ve gotten more support from my Protestant sisters in a lot of things, and so has another faithful Catholic girlfriend of mine. (We’re both looking into starting a Bible study for our kiddos.)

Thanks for letting me vent!!! :grouphug:

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Our parish has two ‘sister’ parishes.

One in Nicaragua and one in Tanzania.

We have regular mission trips to those parishes.

I am especially invoved in the Tanzania mission. For that parish, we have provided for a new, deep well for the village, funded (and helped build) a new parish church, convent, school. A rectory and medical dispensary are under construction now. A team of young adults for our parish are going over this summer to help complete.

I run a special project there, in conjunction with the local bishop. Since I work in the IT industry, I have been working on getting computers into the schools there, so the kids can develop computer skills, which can greatly enhance their job prospects.

Most of the schools do not have electricity, so I do fundraising here, and then arrange for the purchase of a generator and several computers. For the larger secondary schools, I have also arranged for the purchase of a satellite internet router.

The bishops views his schools are his primary means of evangelization. If he has the best schools. In his area, non-Catholics will be interested in sending their children there for the best possible education for their children. And that opens the door for the children to grow up exposed to the Catholic faith.
 
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