Discussing this on another thread I’m currious. A common answer on here is “go ask your priest” so how much authority do you yield to your priest with your own personal life, your marriage, your children, your soul, your consciences, and ultimately your beliefs and faith. And was that authority earned or is it by nature of ordination.
Your pastor (not just any priest, but your
parish priest) always has a certain authority and power over you, especially where governance comes into play. You see this during marriage preparation, baptisms, confirmation, and dispensations. A priest also gains binding authority over you when imposing a penance in confession, any priest. You are bound to fulfill that penance on pain of additional sin.
Other than that, the priest has zero authority over you and your family. Absolutely zilch. The Church prefers the principle of subsidiarity, and so the authority over a family is the
husband/father. A pastor can advise, and quite often, has to. But he cannot bind a family to his authority.
Other than these small cases, if you’re a layman without having any promises made and received by the Church, you owe zero obedience to any priest. The relationship between a pastor and parishioner is nowhere near the relationship between a monk and abbot, or even priest and his bishop. It may not always be the most prudent thing to disregard a priest’s advice or instructions, but I also know that I cannot take every single thing a priest says hook, line, and sinker. Priests have told me wrong things before and I would not “yield” my conscience to those.
“Ask your priest” is the standard CAF advice for the
scrupulous, not the general Catholic population as a whole.