May God’s Peace, Love, Mercy, Graces & Blessings be with you and to all!
It is only Our Good God Who can change people’s heart. We plant that seed by sharing our Catholic faith, by loving God and our neighbors, and by the way we live our ordinary Catholic Christian life on a daily basis. But it is God’s grace that waters that seed and makes it grow. Of course the disposition of the heart/soul - the so called “soil” is important in order for the seed to take root, for it is hard to grow a seed on a rocky ground.
St. John Vianney had that same problem in his days when he was assigned to this small town of Ars. He wasn’t this eloquent, intelligent priest, he barely made it to priesthood. People hardly went to Church and was interested more on living a sinful life than living a life of faith & of love of God. So, what he did, he prayed & fasted for them. Later on people started flocking the Church & wanted to attend holy Mass & also go to Confession that he stayed in the confessional for 15-16 hrs. daily.
So, I have learned to always pray for people and let God do the rest. For some people, in the hardness of their heart won’t listen to any talk about God, His Goodness or His Love. It is like a window covered with dust, mud, etc. that obliterates the rays of the sun & prevents the sun from giving light to the room. So the room always stays dark. The more mud there is, the more darker the room is. So goes the soul that is mired in sin, without realizing, we obstruct God’s grace in our lives by habitually living a sinful life.
Never give up in praying for them even though you may think it is not working just because you do not see a change in their lives. You may never see the results in your lifetime but you will be surprised when you get to heaven the GREAT impact on that person’s soul & salvation with the simple heartfelt prayers that you have offered to Our Good God.
Praying for you and for all!