How to get over someone

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Hello so I’ve been raised as a Catholic and continue to practice my faith but at times fall out of it. It’s been difficult at times for me to move on from this person I was seeing. I thought he was different on how we both were brought up as Catholics and he was the first guy to take me to mass. Never met someone like that. But he always kept his distance and he wanted to try but completely shut me off. Moved away and haven’t kept in touch with me when it was him that contacted me to try again. I’ve overcome my hurt of it by practicing my faith and through prayer. But at times little things remind me of him or I dwell on the past.
 
“Our Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner!”
Say it in your mind repeatedly whenever the sad feelings of longing this guy begin.
 
He may have been placed in your life by God to get you to mass and that’s all. You may have been put into his life for some reason other than dating, and now he has moved on. You should do that as well. Continue to embrace your faith, and look for someone else to date. Do not dwell on the past, but be open to the new.
 
Tough advice but certainly holds a lot of truth. I’m in a similar situation with a guy and I keep telling myself that God probably put him in my life for such and such reason and he probably isn’t the one I am meant to end up with. But just accepting it can be really hard.
 
Times like these can be especially difficult.

it’s especially hard I think, when it seems like we may care for someone more than they may care for us, or when we may seem to get “mixed messages” from someone else, as in they may get close to us, and then pull away from us.

The best thing that I think to do as others have suggested, is to try and move on, as difficult as it may be for you at this time. The passing of time does ease things after awhile.

God bless you!
 
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