How to stop thinking about future

[Babinicz]

I think a lot about future. They are ridiculous unreal dreams. I often imagine my future life, how will I live, what job will I be doing, my future family. I used to imagine a lot of situations when I was younger. Created ideal life in my imaginery. Its unreal, I understand that I know nothing about the future. Only God has a plan upon me and He knows everything. But then I start thinking, for example what should I do after high school, which job etc. and it upsets me.
The same is with relations between men and women, life in marriage. I shouldnt even bother to think about it, I am very young and single, why do I think about it much? Everytime I read something related to this it makes me think of it. And then comes the overload of informations, big confussion what is true, overall too much worries.

 

[Greenfields]

Perhaps take notice of good role models in your life,observe how they relate to one another in a normal family way.
When I think back to when I was younger,I feel really blessed to have met
really lovely older people who I talked with quietly about life,these were brief encounters but that sharing of wisdom made an impact that will last a lifetime.
Take your time,there is no rush at all.
God bless.

 

[BartholomewB]

There’s nothing wrong in thinking about the future. It’s better than dwelling on the past. Try and think about it constructively: What is the next step I need to take now, to help me on the way to the kind of future I want?

 

[Rosebud77]

Live the present; live NOW. fully and in self giving and deep joy.

An old man who would sit outside the pub used to say, "The past is history, the future is a mystery, So we have only now which is why we cal it a PRESENT "

 

[joeybaggz]

You’re young, you are supposed to think about the future. The key though is to discover in the present what you like, what you truly believe, and what makes you happy, and pursue those things. But first put your trust in God and live each day trying to be the best version of yourself. Take it from somebody old enough to be your grandpa, I didn’t really learn what I was good at and really wanted to do until I was 54 years of age. God does have a plan, trust in it, and trust in yourself and the faith you share with so many on this forum.
Shalom