I was at my very first “hurry-up” nuptial mass a couple of months ago. I was one of the hired musicians for this wedding and had never been to the church before - an absolutely beautiful, old, little gem along the Jersey shore. The priest to celebrate the sacrament was very nice. I arrived an hour prior to the ceremony, as I always do for weddings as a musician, and met with him to ask about things I needed to be aware of, etc. He told me that he didn’t tell the bridal couple, but another wedding was accidently scheduled immediately after theirs. Apparently the Spanish parish had closed down and was consolidated into their parish, but the pastor of the Spanish parish forgot to tell him about his scheduled wedding mass and they didn’t realize it until a few days before the wedding date. Neither pastor told these bridal couples of the error because they didn’t want to cause a fuss. Mistake number one.
Anyway, he told us just to be wary of the length of the music and to not mention anything to the groom and his family, which I didn’t when he came in. Of course, the bride was almost a half hour late. We could see from the organ loft how nervous the priest was. It was the fastest wedding masses I had ever seen. We cut parts of our music, he had the mass parts recited, and gave a really short homily. He was done in a half hour and they had a large congregation attend, most of whom received communion. My husband, who came with us, said that he felt sorry for the couple because the Sacrament went so quickly, you almost didn’t witness it. At the same time, the bride shouldn’t have been so late, although who knows what happened. (I was 15 minutes late for my wedding because my grandmother had fallen getting into the vehicle which was to drive us to the Cathedral and we were attending to her. She was fine.)
The priest was cutting off the string quartet after the organ was done and the other musicians for the next wedding were coming in to set up. And while the receiving line was being done for the wedding I did, guests and the bridal party of the other wedding were already coming in. What a surreal experience.