Hurting because of injustice

[Rosebud77]

Apologies if this is inappropriate but I am deeply upset. Being victimised by the leaders of a large forum I have participated in for years and where I have been privileged to give so much caring and sharing… I had to make a complaint re a man who was virtually stalking me on the forums; I accidentally upset him years ago and he has never forgotten although he claim to be a committed Christian who believes in love and tolerance. It has been unnerving. I am old and female. SO many lovely folk there and I have added photos etc. Today I learned I have been banned and the reasons are trumped up. I realise this is apparently normal in society but I cannot rest and am sick tonight and hurting. Last Friday my family lost a lovely young member; I did not post on the forum for two days and when I checked, the ones I know best were worried and missing me. I do not have any email addresses for them and cannot access the list now. The sheer injustice lacerates my old soul. The accusations they made were things that were so dishonourable to me that I cannot cope. Sorry. Was so enjoying the list. Am all but bedbound and they know this. What is wrong with folk these days…

 

[GEddie]

Apologies if this is inappropriate but I am deeply upset. Being victimised by the leaders of a large forum I have participated in for years and where I have been privileged to give so much caring and sharing… I had to make a complaint re a man who was virtually stalking me on the forums; I accidentally upset him years ago and he has never forgotten although he claim to be a committed Christian who believes in love and tolerance. It has been unnerving. I am old and female. SO many lovely folk there and I have added photos etc. Today I learned I have been banned and the reasons are trumped up. I realise this is apparently normal in society but I cannot rest and am sick tonight and hurting. Last Friday my family lost a lovely young member; I did not post on the forum for two days and when I checked, the ones I know best were worried and missing me. I do not have any email addresses for them and cannot access the list now. The sheer injustice lacerates my old soul. The accusations they made were things that were so dishonourable to me that I cannot cope. Sorry. Was so enjoying the list. Am all but bedbound and they know this. What is wrong with folk these days…

My condolences R77.

Injustices are part of life, and have been so since Biblical times, but never hurt any less.

If you can’t get reinstated, however much it hurts, take heart that it counts towards your penance.

God Bless and ICXC NIKA.

 

[Rosebud77]

My condolences R77.

Injustices are part of life, and have been so since Biblical times, but never hurt any less.

If you can’t get reinstated, however much it hurts, take heart that it counts towards your penance.

God Bless and ICXC NIKA.

Thanks and I know really! My strongest spiritual adviser often tells me that my worst fault is thinking" that everyone is like you…" She get exasperated with me. But I was doing so much good there, and loving so many folk there and that is so much needed. Kicking myself that I did nto make email contact with some of them. It is alo the inhumanity of it. They know of my bereavement and of my illness and my advanced age and still they can wade in with cold accusations.

 

[Isca]

I really do sympathise with you. This happened to me some years ago and I was also devastated - I’m also female. I have since found another forum where I feel at home, but I often think about how I felt back then.

You could perhaps email the administrator of the forum and ask him to supply your personal email address to the named people you wish to keep in touch with, explaining a little about your personal situation.

I do hope you feel better about this soon. Sending hugs your way. x

 

[GEddie]

It’s also possible that you could apply for reinstatement.

ICXC NIKA

 

[Allegra]

I understand. I was kinda down when I got thrown out of the forums at Catholicmatch.com. All over some sort of silly rule that you had to be single in order to use their site. You can talk to us though! PS- Facebook has a group for people who are former users of that site. Maybe there’s one for the site you were on?

 

[Rosebud77]

I really do sympathise with you. This happened to me some years ago and I was also devastated - I’m also female. I have since found another forum where I feel at home, but I often think about how I felt back then.

You could perhaps email the administrator of the forum and ask him to supply your personal email address to the named people you wish to keep in touch with, explaining a little about your personal situation.

I do hope you feel better about this soon. Sending hugs your way. x

For this, thanks. It is the admin who told me of the ban sadly. I am very suspicious as the lies are there. I cannot face the place any more and am too unwell and grieving. They have labelled me with some terrible things that are total lies. This is boards .ie. Oh I could go back in a month they said but the impression I am left with is that they will then find another excuse. Clearly some emails messages have gone astray there. I am useless combatting lies. Just would have loved to keep in touch with one in particular. They loved my posts… maybe jealousy. I am to sick now to touch it. Hanging in here by a fragile thread. False accusations hurt like hell… Sickens me… Again thanks and blessings… just too fragile and ill now and deeply scarred by too many things.

 

[ynotzap]

Rosebud77:

People lied about Jesus too, so as a christian you share in some of the sufferings of Christ, as all Christian do, and you will share in His glory! Don’t let the devil get you down, he works through our weaknesses and causes us to suffer through the imperfections and malice of others. God love you in Jesus.