Husband doesn't love me

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I’m sorry that your husband is so confused about himself and about life.

Praying.
 
Praying for you and for him.

Holy Mother, please intercede for us.
Hold the sorrowful, strengthen the fearful,
give aid to all needing help or healing,
assist those who are sick, in pain or suffering,
be with those needing peace, console the lonely,
comfort the lost or hopeless, guard the unborn,
pray for those who are dying or who have died,
soften those with hardened hearts,
enlighten those who do not yet see truth,
help us be brave enough to let our hurt and anger go,
show us the way to do the right thing,
protect those who are in danger,
and guide us from every evil.
May all who keep your sacred commemoration
experience the might of your assistance.
Amen
 
O glorious Saint Therese, whom Almighty God has raised up to aid and counsel mankind, I implore your Miraculous Intercession.
So powerful are you in obtaining every need of body and soul our Holy Mother Church proclaims you a “Prodigy of Miracles…the Greatest Saint of Modern Times.” Now I fervently beseech you to answer my petition for rekindle ship and love in the relationship and to carry out your promises of spending Heaven doing good upon the earth…of letting fall from Heaven a Shower of Roses.
Henceforth, dear Little Flower, I will fulfill your plea “to be made known everywhere” and I will never cease to lead others to Jesus through you.
Amen.
 
I share your pain. This past March my husband told me that he hated me after 9 years of marriage. There is much more to my story.

Just know you are strong. Trust in the Lord. He has a plan for you. I will pray for you and your family. The link below is a link that has 31 days of praying for your husband. This site helped me during my hard time. I hope it helps you.

reviveourhearts.com/articles/31-days-of-praying-for-your-husband/
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

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Thank you for all your prayers. He has gotten nicer but I believe his heart is still set on a Playboy playmate. He just got a promotion and actually believes now that he can get a woman younger than his two sons. I pray every day but wonder when I should give up?:confused:
 
Ihttp://www.prayerformarriage.com/

I will continue to pray for your marriage. I will also pray for you. I pray that Lord gives you guidence and peace within your heart. I feel that once you have peace within your heart you will then know the answer you are looking for. Here is another link th at has helped me.
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
krunk said:
My husband has told me he doesn’t love me and has only stayed for the past 18 years ‘for the children.’ He also says he wants ‘something different’ than he wanted at 25. I know that online porn has always been in the picture, even before we met. He is an atheist and I am the Catholic. Please pray for him and for our marriage. I still love him but should have prayed more for him over the years but he always seemed so strong and I thought he never needed God or a church like I do. Thank you so much for your prayers.
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I will pray for you, your husband and your family. I don’t know if his porn addiction is the cause of his callous admittance to you but it is possible. Porn is a HUGE problem in our society especially because of the easy of access to it via the internet. Unlike chemical addictions, porn rewires the brain and addiction is NOT dependent on a chemical or just avoiding the withdrawal symptoms. In essence, the person becomes a new person because of his addiction and his very body works against him reverting back to his previous self. This is not to say a man cannot beat his porn addiction but he must want to get rid of his addiction and that first requires his admission that he has an addiction.

You are right to pray for him; unless he sees his addiction for what it is, his rewired brain will keep its hold of him. God Bless you, faithful wife and servant of God. Keep praying. God is listening.
 
krunk said:
Thank you for all your prayers. He has gotten nicer but I believe his heart is still set on a Playboy playmate. He just got a promotion and actually believes now that he can get a woman younger than his two sons. I pray every day but wonder when I should give up?:confused:
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Please don’t give up! Whatever is happening is part of God’s Plan and we must trust in the Lord. Keep the faith and keep praying as we all pray for you as well. God Bless you.
 
Praying for all necessary graces for you and your husband. Also praying that the Lord may draw him away from harm.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen
 
My Jesus, I offer this intention to Your most sacred heart.

Our Father who art in heaven
Hallowed be thy name
Thy kingdom come
Thy will be done
On earth as it is in heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us
Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.

Eternal Father, in whom mercy is endless
And treasury of compassion is inexhaustible
Look kindly upon us and increase your mercy in us
So that in difficult moments
We may not despair
Nor become despondent
But with great confidence
Submit ourselves to your holy will
Which is love and mercy in itself
 
Continued prayers for you:

Hail holy queen, Mother of mercy,
Our life, our sweetness and our hope,
to you do we cry, poor banished children of Eve,
to you do we lift up our sighs, mourning and weeping in
this Valley of Tears. Turn then, most gracious Advocate,
your eyes of mercy towards us, and after this our exile,
show to us the blessed fruit of your womb, Jesus,
O clement, O loving, O kind Virgin Mary!
(Pray for us O holy Mother of God,
that we may be made worthy of the
promises of Christ!).
Amen.
 
808Catholic said:
Please don’t give up! Whatever is happening is part of God’s Plan and we must trust in the Lord. Keep the faith and keep praying as we all pray for you as well. God Bless you.
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It is importable to acknowledge that in is never part of God’s plan. Your husband chooses to sin. It is that sinfulness that is shattering your marriage. What is breaking up this marriage is the sins of infidelity to the marriage, and the lust of porn.

“13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. 14But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust.” James chapter 1
 
Would he be open to the idea of going to counselling ? All may not be lost,
Obviously he has issues with himself,
 
I’ll say the Rosary for you and you’re husband tonight krunk.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

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Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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AussieTrish said:
It is importable to acknowledge that in is never part of God’s plan. Your husband chooses to sin. It is that sinfulness that is shattering your marriage. What is breaking up this marriage is the sins of infidelity to the marriage, and the lust of porn.

“13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. 14But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust.” James chapter 1
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I chose my words indelicately and agree you are correct. The husband’s sin is not part of God’s plan. From my life experience, God has given me situations in which I can chose to grow closer to Him or to turn away from Him. I shouldn’t have used words that implied the challenges was God’s plan but that God used these challenges to bring me closer to Him. The husband is facing his own set of challenges and, until he understands what is God’s plan for him and how he’s turning away from God, the husband will continue to sin and cause harm to his wife. God Bless you.
 
Thank you all so much for your support. He is still distant and waiting for me to leave as he doesnt want to leave his home. It’s very screwed up. I am not perfect either but I have apologized to him for anything I did wrong but he did not return in kind. I thank you so much for all your prayers. He is a better person than me but I am the one with the faith cuz I’m a convert and sinner.🙂
 


I am so sorry for all you’ve been through – especially you’re husband’s cruel rejection and ongoing use of pornography. May you turn to Jesus and Our Lady in the days ahead.

Prayer for the Brokenhearted
Vienna Cobb Anderson

O God,
whose love restores
the brokenhearted of this world:
pour out your love,
we beseech you,
upon those who feel
lonely, abandoned, or unloved.
Strengthen their hope
to meet the days ahead;
give them the courage
to form life-giving friendships;
and bless them with the joy
of your eternal peace.
Amen.

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