Husband wants me to be Lutheran?

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He was asking me today if I would be interested in being Lutheran if the churches ever had English services here. I think it stresses him out, me wanting to be Catholic. :confused: He says he’s non denominational really but I have heard him talk about this before.

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Tell him no and explain why. If it is stressing him out, ask him what bothers him about it and deal with it from there.
 
Tell him “no” - and hold fast the the Faith. Stand fast…in truth and love and joy and gentleness…
 
When I was an unconfirmed Catholic my husband also chose Lutheranism. A conservative branch that currently does not have women pastors. We were there five years. At that point he realized Luther’s theology didn’t square with the Bible, of which there were several books missing. The transition to Catholic was a little rough going, we ended up as Eastern Catholic.

So I would say it was valuable time spent, because he is now a member of an apostolate defending Catholicism.
 
Tell him no and explain why. If it is stressing him out, ask him what bothers him about it and deal with it from there.
Tell him it would “stress” you out to leave the Catholic Church and stick with it. Get Confirmed. talk to your pastor! God Bless, Memaw
 
It kind of makes me wonder why people are so ready to make decisions on faith for other people.

My hospital visits show me a perspective of that. When going in to a patient’s room and asking if they would like Communion, I barely have the words out of my mouth and someone is saying (probably spouse) “Oh, she had communion yesterday. She doesn’t need it today.”

That happens a lot.

Funny how others like to dominate their loved ones with a belief system because they want to make the loved ones do what they want them to. They do not want to allow the other a chance to decide for themselves.
 
I agree that you should hold on to your faith. Ask him why it stresses him out? Is he educated about the Catholic faith?
 
He was asking me today if I would be interested in being Lutheran if the churches ever had English services here. I think it stresses him out, me wanting to be Catholic. :confused: He says he’s non denominational really but I have heard him talk about this before.

Ideas?

Kat
Whatever is said, say in a kind and loving way. The message is how we say it more often than what we say. So you might say something along the lines of wishing him the very best of what Jesus has to offer. And he offers us his very own body and blood as our food to be with us on our journey thru life. “He who eats my body and drinks my blood lives in me and I in them.” The whole purpose is to be one with Jesus, and this is the perfect way…to follow his own wishes to be with us.

It also helps to leave a few pamphlets and books laying around.

He might also be made aware of a class which teaches what the Catholic church believes. It is free with no obligation.

It would help if you get the Church’s Catholic Catechism. Browse thru the back of the book at it’s index of subjects, and read those that you are interested in. Someday you may find your husband picking it up to find an answer as well.

And get a green scapular, have it blessed, and then put it under the mattress. Say the prayer each day “Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us now and at the hour of death.” And trust Mary to keep her promise about this scapular. Which was … that a person would receive the faith, or if they have the faith, it would increase. She gave it to us for that very reason … faith. She wouldn’t lie to us…just trust her and say the prayer each day.

December 03, 2015 Speaking on December 3 to the Congregation for Evangelization, Pope Francis said: …”The Pope told his audience—160 people participating in the plenary assembly of the Congregation for Evangelization—that every initiative to spread the Gospel should begin with personal conversion, and a focus on Jesus Christ.“
 
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