Hypothetical Question

[Kepha15]

Is it a sin if, during foreplay, a man accidently ejaculates? I know that the marital act is to be completed inside of the woman, but if the couple is engaging in foreplay and this causes the man to accidently ejaculate, is this a sin, and if so, how serious is it? Also, if this happens, must the couple then wait and complete the act inside the woman once the man is “recouperated”? What is the best course of action here?

Sorry for the graphic nature.

 

[Eileen_T]

Don’t sweat the small stuff…

In other words, if he didn’t intend to ejaculate during foreplay, it wasn’t intentional and wasn’t a pre-meditated sin.

If it becomes a pattern, however, and one or other of you deliberately use it to happen, to avoid the completion of the marital act, then you are entering into sinful action.

As to waiting until the man recuperates and completing the ‘marital act’, as a woman, I would say that if the woman is left in a state of unfulfilled need then the man definitely need to do so.

If she is happy with the status quo, however, you may have a major problem on your hands that needs counselling.