. It’s not just something physical but like a wound in the soul. I feel God’s the only one who knows what I’m really going through, the one who understands my suffering. He´s who can really help me.
Dear Anatrusts - I feel for you very deeply and have been praying for you since I read your first post. I agree with the previous posters that your sort of eating disorder really needs professional help, but I’d like to stress a couple of things.
Don’t despair, EVER. It may take a few attempts to beat your problem, but as one who had an eating disorder of a different sort for 14 years, and failed about 12 times (I mean, periods of about 3 months at a time of conquering it before relapsing) - I say, never think it’s hopeless. I have, thank God, been free of it for some years, and don’t ever want to go back there. But it can only be done with God’s help - more of that later.
Secondly, I don’t know if it is of any help to think of it in terms of sin. That seems a bit harsh, to me, as one who would not have been able to cope with the added burden of that thought when I was in that place.
Someone with an eating disorder knows how helpless and weak they are - so that’s an ideal jumping-off point for a deep relationship with God. “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”. Poverty of spirit is knowing your need of God.
Here’s a verse from Ps. 90:14 to keep in mind: “Since (s)he clings to me in love, I will free him(her)”. (Ps. 91 in some translations).That emptiness within that you feel is waiting to be filled by God. He wants you to “cling to” Him, and He will fill that inner emptiness.
When you get panicky about food (which I suppose is often), just calmly and quietly entrust yourself totally to God - He is closer to you than your own breathing - He dwells within you -
(Jn. 15:4). Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor. 3:16) so you need to respect and love your body and nourish it for God’s sake.
No one will ever love you more than He does, and He never takes His eyes off you.
I hope you will keep in touch with us on this board as well as seeking professional help. We are here for you with our prayers!