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I am a fairly new Catholic (RCIA 2009) and I wanted to dedicate at least a ½ hour to prayer each day. I have noticed that I have an hour or so before my wife and daughter come home after work. Instead of watching TV or chatting on the phone or other activities I would like to spend time in prayer. I have tried the rosary many times, but it seems hard to concentrate on the mysteries and saying the rosary at the same time. I was looking for prayer suggestions. Thank you all and God Bless. :crossrc:
 
Have you tried the Divine Mercy chaplet? It only takes about 15 minutes but it’s a beautiful devotion

circleofprayer.com/divine-mercy-chaplet.html

As far as the Rosary goes, I had the very same problem as you have when I first started praying it.

In the beginning I only recited the prayers, and meditated on my intentions, then I went to this site hail-mary-rosaries.com/online-rosary.html where I would just read each of the scriptures before saying the Hail Mary associated with it. Eventually, about 2 months later, I found that I knew what was happening in each mystery and found it easier to picture the mystery in my mind.

Here is a prayer that I love, I believe St Augustine prayed it

Ordering a Life Wisely

O merciful God, grant that I may
desire ardently,
search prudently,
recognize truly,
and bring to perfect completion
whatever is pleasing to You
for the praise and glory of Your name.
Put my life in good order, O my God.

Grant that I may know

**what You require me to do. **
Bestow upon me
the power to accomplish Your will,
as is necessary and fitting
for the salvation of my soul.

Grant to me, O Lord my God,
that I may not falter in times
of prosperity or adversity,
so that I may not be exalted in the former,
nor dejected in the latter.

May I not rejoice in anything
unless it leads me to You;
may I not be saddened by anything
unless it turns me from You.
May I desire to please no one,
nor fear to displease anyone,
but You.
May all transitory things, O Lord,
be worthless to me
and may all things eternal
be ever cherished by me.
May any joy without You
be burdensome for me
and may I not desire anything else
besides You.
May all work, O Lord,
delight me when done for Your sake
and may all repose not centered in You
be ever wearisome for me.

Grant unto me, my God,
that I may direct my heart to You
and that in my failures
I may ever feel remorse for my sins
and never lose the resolve to change.

O Lord my God, make me
submissive without protest,
poor without discouragement,
chaste without regret,
patient without complaint,
humble without posturing,
cheerful without frivolity,
mature without gloom,
and quick-witted without flippancy.

O Lord my God, let me
fear You without losing hope,
be truthful without guile,
do good works without presumption,
rebuke my neighbor without haughtiness,
and – without hypocrisy -
strengthen him by word and example.

Give to me, O Lord God,
a watchful heart,
which no capricious thought
can lure away from you.
Give to me
a noble heart
which no unworthy desire can debase.
Give to me
a resolute heart,
which no evil intention can divert.
Give to me
a stalwart heart,
which no tribulation can overcome.
Give to me
a temperate heart,
which no violent passion can enslave.

Give to me, O Lord my God,
understanding of You,
diligence in seeking You,
wisdom in finding You,
discourse ever pleasing to You,
perseverance in waiting for You,
and confidence in finally embracing You.

Grant that with Your hardships
I may be burdened in reparation here,
that Your benefits
I may use in gratitude upon the way,
that in Your joys
I may delight in glorifying You
in the Kingdom of Heaven.
You Who live and reign,
God, world without end.
Amen.


This is a prayer that I find really does make you think about our own behaviour and helps us to perfect our attitudes and actions. Personally, I’d love to rewrite it in simpler words for the sake of my husband who loves the prayer but has had to stop and ask me what a certain phrase or expression meant.
 
And sit down sometimes, and just talk to the Lord with all the wishes of your heart for others and yourself and the world,
and with thanksgiving to God for all the little and big blessings.
Be your honest self with Him,
and say “Amen” to His wishes.
 
You are on the right track if you are looking to set aside some time each day to devote to prayer. Don’t be discouraged if your prayer seems like it is not accompanied by strong emotions for prayer is much more than feelings. You are still praying even if it may seem dry to you.

I like to use the Magnificat Magazine which has morning prayers, daily Mass readings, and evening prayers as well as meditations taken from the the saints’ writings.

Stay close to Our Lady throughout your life and she will keep you close to Jesus.
The adversary is a coward where she is concerned. :harp:
 
Mkipp,

You may want to get yourself a Catholic prayer book. If you can find it somewhere, I have The Catholic Prayer Book, compiled by Msgr. Michael Buckley. It is a small sized book, but includes prayers for all occasions and needs. (I have found prayers in there to pray for thigs I never would even have thought to pray about!) You will surely find prayers that are suited to your particular state in life also, such as being a husband and father. I recommend it. I also have a prayer book that is for Mothers. There may be ones for Fathers too, I don’t know offhand. Check online at a Catholic site or go to a Catholic bookstore.

You may also want to look on EWTN’s website and print out prayers that touch your heart. You could make a book of your own of some form and refer to it in your daily prayer.

I myself have trouble with the mysteries too, but just keep praying the Rosary anyway.👍

May God bless you and guide you in your search for a deeper prayer life.
 
Hello Mkipp. 🙂

I really like Trishie’s suggestion - I practice it. I make contact one on one with Our Lord Jesus every day, just to touch base - Here I am Lord. I cannot see him and that’s okay - I don’t need to. But, I know he is with me and is listening to my thoughts. He’s my best friend. It 's like free prayers and you receive the graces and blessings. Not that, of course, you need to communicate your thoughts to him - he already knows them - but, it’s nice.
And sit down sometimes, and just talk to the Lord with all the wishes of your heart for others and yourself and the world,
and with thanksgiving to God for all the little and big blessings.
Be your honest self with Him,
and say “Amen” to His wishes.
I think you may like the Liturgy of the Hours. I have been praying it for some months now. I finally figured out how to pray it - it took me some time. This is the official prayer of the Church and your prayer is united with the prayer of the Church. It’s really spiritually nourishing.

Here is the four volumes I bought: ewtnreligiouscatalogue.com/LARGE+PRINT+4-VOLUME+LITURGY+OF+THE+HOURS/cid=34/page_no=1/edp_no=3958/shop.axd/ProductDetails

I could just go on about the Liturgy of the Hours…

Peace,

Abba
 
Hello Mkipp. 🙂

I really like Trishie’s suggestion - I practice it. I make contact one on one with Our Lord Jesus every day, just to touch base - Here I am Lord. I cannot see him and that’s okay - I don’t need to. But, I know he is with me and is listening to my thoughts. He’s my best friend. It 's like free prayers and you receive the graces and blessings. Not that, of course, you need to communicate your thoughts to him - he already knows them - but, it’s nice.

I think you may like the Liturgy of the Hours. I have been praying it for some months now. I finally figured out how to pray it - it took me some time. This is the official prayer of the Church and your prayer is united with the prayer of the Church. It’s really spiritually nourishing.

Here is the four volumes I bought: ewtnreligiouscatalogue.com/LARGE+PRINT+4-VOLUME+LITURGY+OF+THE+HOURS/cid=34/page_no=1/edp_no=3958/shop.axd/ProductDetails

I could just go on about the Liturgy of the Hours…

Peace,

Abba
I would not suggest the four volume LOTH for someone who is basically beginning with it. Magnificat is a good suggestion or Shorter Christian Prayer. If the OP truly finds this prayer suits him then he could think about purchasing the full set. For someone who is just looking for Morning or Evening Prayer, this 4 volume is a lot of money to spend for someone who is not going to pray most of the hours, especially if one is not praying the Office of Readings, which is really one of the the only reasons one needs the 4 volume.

BTW I do have the 4 volume and the only reason I switched from Christian Prayer to the full set is because of the Office of Readings.
 
As wonderful as it is to pray the Liturgy of the Hours, or to recite favorite prayers, a life of prayer is not complete without mental prayer - a loving personal conversation with God. Here’s a good book - short and easy, but very rich - to help you on your way to mental prayer.

Betsy
 
As the previous poster suggested, mental prayer is pretty important. It’s sort of the cornerstone of all prayer, even vocal prayers. St. Teresa says even if you’re praying out loud, if you’re not consciously speaking to God, it’s not really prayer at all.
I’m finding this book very helpful. It basically summarizes the thoughts of St. Teresa into 120 pages and even includes samples of what a typical meditation might look like.

amazon.com/Conversation-Christ-Teaching-Teresa-Personal/dp/0895551802/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1279038562&sr=1-1
 
Mkipp~

Welcome! How exciting to have you entering the Church!

The Rosary is a wonderful prayer to learn as you are entering the Church as it contains the entire Gospel. It incorporates vocal prayer and meditative prayer, but as you’ve noted, it requires discipline to keep from being distracted. What helped me as I was learning it was what a previous poster suggested - pick up a “Scriptural Rosary” book that gives you Scripture verses/passages for each mystery. Another great resource is from the Dominicans of the Western Province - their Rosary Center publishes a book, “Praying the Rosary Without Distractions” that gives you a facet of the mystery to meditate on for each “Hail Mary” of the Mysteries. This is also available online at: rosary-center.org/howto.htm (just click on the set of mysteries you want to pray).

Another prayer I’d highly recommend is the Liturgy of the Hours. This is the official prayer of the Church and is liturgical prayer, like the Mass. The full Liturgy of the Hours is composed of seven separate times of prayer: the Office of Readings (which can be done anytime throughout the day), Morning Prayer, Midmorning Prayer, Midday Prayer, Midafternoon Prayer, Evening Prayer, and Night Prayer. At each prayer time, there is a hymn, three psalms, a short Scripture reading (with the Office of Readings, it is longer and there is a second reading from the saints and Church fathers), and additional prayers with that.

Besides being the official prayer of the Church, what’s wonderful about the LOTH is that it can help keep you in a spirit of prayer throughout your day and gives short Scripture passages, etc. that you can meditate on as you continue about your day. However, for most laity, the full LOTH is too much. As was suggested, getting your feet wet with the Shorter Christian Prayer (which is just Morning and Evening Prayer) or a subscription to Magnificat, which also has supplemental meditaitons, readings about the saints, and the daily Mass readings, would be prudent. Then if you want to add some of the other hours, say the Office of Readings or Midday Prayer, you can invest in the four-volume set.

A third method of prayer you may find very fruitful is an ancient form of prayer in the Church called “lectio divina” (“Divine reading”). It is a way of reading, meditating, praying, and contemplating Scripture and ultimately God. For more on this, check out: op.org.au/voc/lectio.php .

There are many, many other devotions that you can incorporate into your prayer life, but remember these are meant to be tools to draw you into a deeper relationship with God. As tools, they are helpful, generally for a time, but as you progress in your spiritual life, there may be times when they actually get in the way of further growth. Eventually, you may want to find a good spiritual director who can help you sort out when you should persevere with a particular devotion or when you might need to set it aside for a time. For more on developing your prayer life and relationship with God, two books I found helpful are “Deep Conversion/Deep Prayer” and “Fire Within: St. Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross, and The Gospel on Prayer”, both written by Fr. Thomas Dubay, SM.
 
Whenever I hear a siren, I pray for the persons involved in that event. When I see a police officer pulling over someone I pray for the safety of the police officer. A siren could represent firemen running into a blaze. A policeman going to stop a crime. Paramedics going to help the injured.
 
I am a fairly new Catholic (RCIA 2009) and I wanted to dedicate at least a ½ hour to prayer each day. I have noticed that I have an hour or so before my wife and daughter come home after work. Instead of watching TV or chatting on the phone or other activities I would like to spend time in prayer. I have tried the rosary many times, but it seems hard to concentrate on the mysteries and saying the rosary at the same time. I was looking for prayer suggestions. Thank you all and God Bless. :crossrc:
how about praying the divine mercy chaplet…or splitting up the time to pray for different intentions like the holy souls in purgatory etc

heres a site that may interest you [catholicsunited(name removed by moderator)rayer.org/](http://catholicsunited(name removed by moderator)rayer.org/)
 
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