I can't help them, can I?

[Nuruns]

I know a couple (boyfriend and girlfriend), good friends of mine who I care a lot about. They live with the bf’s aunt and the whole family is being evicted from their home and they have a short time to find a new place and haven’t had much luck. I have been wanting to help them out by finding as many apartments as I can but considering the couple is unmarried and living together I consider it immoral to assist them in finding a new place to live (together ). Am I right?

 

[chicago]

Well, you could try to help them find new places to live seperately.

 

[hlmem]

I know a couple (boyfriend and girlfriend), good friends of mine who I care a lot about. They live with the bf’s aunt and the whole family is being evicted from their home and they have a short time to find a new place and haven’t had much luck. I have been wanting to help them out by finding as many apartments as I can but considering the couple is unmarried and living together I consider it immoral to assist them in finding a new place to live (together ). Am I right?

My opinion is you help them find a place but seak with them how you disagree with their lifestyle and you want to help them find a second place as well.

I have a feeling they will only desire one place but try to still send a message while helping them.

Even though you cant change their lifestyle, doesn’t mean you cant change their life.

 

[BlestOne]

I don’t know how old you are but, I tend to get away with the, “So are you two going to set a date soon?” question. This usually prompts them to think about it more than they would have.

 

[StCsDavid]

I know a couple (boyfriend and girlfriend), good friends of mine who I care a lot about. They live with the bf’s aunt and the whole family is being evicted from their home and they have a short time to find a new place and haven’t had much luck. I have been wanting to help them out by finding as many apartments as I can but considering the couple is unmarried and living together I consider it immoral to assist them in finding a new place to live (together ). Am I right?

If they were homeless and you knew a place where they could live, would you withhold that information on the basis that they would likely sin in that new location? If they found a place on their own, would you still be their friend? Love the sinner, hate the sin. If you truly want to evangelize them, don’t kick them while they are down.