I have fallen in love, but she is Bi Sexual. Advice?

[Warrior-Angel]

So I became a Catholic in 2012 and my life has been great and I feel like I have a great relationship with Jesus finally.

Well, just recently I fell in love with a girl that had been my friends with since Highschool. We have known each other for 20 years but we were not close friends.
One day we started going out and saw each other often, as time moved on we then fell in love.

Just recently she has told me she is BiSexual and it’s tearing me apart because I love her so much, she is the one I want to marry and she even wants to convert to the Catholic Faith someday.

She makes me so happy and feel so complete!
But I know that Catholic Traditionalists would say she is a bad influence or even evil.
How can someone that makes me so happy and feel so loved be evil??

I have no clue what to do, as childish as that sounds… it’s true. Any thoughts?

 

[RedDuke]

I see no problem with her being bisexual. Being attracted to people of the same sex isn’t sinful or evil, it’s when you act on it that it becomes a problem. She isn’t going out with women obviously, so there isn’t really a problem as long as she stays faithful to you just as anyone else should do.

 

[adamhovey1988]

I have a very close female friend of mine, who for the longest time said she was bisexual, until I told her I didn’t believe her, and then we discussed it, turns out she’s not. She was not raised by her father, but she started to get more familiar with the man who is probably her father, and he wasn’t very comfortable with it. I don’t think she stopped referring to herself as a bisexual because of him, but I think that pushed her to admit to herself that maybe she’s not who she’s throwing her self out to be. Parents can work wonders, especially when they care about their children. But that’s a different story, the vast majority of people I know if they call themselves bisexual, they usually still prefer one over the other. I mean even I’ve had those thoughts, but I’m definitely a heterosexual.

 

[Mavzylor]

Same sex attraction is intrinsically disordered, but that doesn’t make the person evil. I wouldn’t say that she is a bad influence, I would say that being with you is a good influence on her, as it will help her with the struggle to resist acting on same sex attraction.