I like this girl but she is a witch

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I’ve met her for a couple of months now and her friends first pointed out that she has a crush on me. I tried to avoid her once I found out that she practices witchcraft, but she is really sweet and kind. When I started talking to her again, I started to like her more and more, but deep down I know I can’t be her boyfriend even though I want to. I believe that she expects me to ask her out and I don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her I can’t be with her. She’s very rebellious against the Catholic Church and also sexual towards me. Anything I can do?
 
Welcome to CAF, @StrangeCalico! Explore the site and make new CAF friends; you can talk here 24/7.

Since you know that she’s wrong for you, you are putting yourself into a difficult position in that very moment in which you decide to see her. You will save yourself a whole lot of hurt by finding other friends. It’s unlikely that she hangs with friends who don’t also practice witchcraft. You expose yourself to the occasion of sin every time that you join them.

If, in site of your staying away from this crowd, she attempts to ask you out, simply say, “No.” If she presses you for a reason, say that you don’t want to do whatever she has suggested. Then, say, “Gotta run!” and leave or hang up.

Talk to your priest and your parents. I told my son that any time he didn’t want to join kids in the neighborhood or at school to blame it on me: “My mother would never let me do that!” Or, “My mother would ground me for the rest of the summer.” You get the idea. Best luck to you. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
 
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Anything I can do?
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Generally speaking, the best thing anyone could do would be to lead her away from false religion like witchcraft and toward the Christian faith.

It’s difficult, though, because you are both young and so different. It’s also spiritually risky for you. I mean, it may weaken your faith if she often talks about witchcraft and does witchy stuff in your presence. Even if you would never believe in it, you will think about it, you can’t easily unsee or unhear it, and so it pollutes your faith.

It’s probably best to keep a safe emotional distance. You can still be polite and respectful, friendly in a way, but not too close.
 
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StrangeCalico:
She’s very rebellious against the Catholic Church
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Is she Catholic? I mean was she brought up Catholic? Do you know what she doesn’t like about it?
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Yes. Her mom and dad are Catholics. Her grandma on the other hand is a hardcore believer and practitioner of witchcraft and has her little “coven” too.
 
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Anything I can do?
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Generally speaking, the best thing anyone could do would be to lead her away from false religion like witchcraft and toward the Christian faith.

It’s difficult, though, because you are both young and so different. It’s also spiritually risky for you. I mean, it may weaken your faith if she often talks about witchcraft and does witchy stuff in your presence. Even if you would never believe in it, you will think about it, you can’t easily unsee or unhear it, and so it pollutes your faith.

It’s probably best to keep a safe emotional distance. You can still be polite and respectful, friendly in a way, but not too close.
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It’s hard to keep a safe emotional distance. She just won’t understand and keeps pushing and getting more and more flirty.
 
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Welcome to CAF, @StrangeCalico! Explore the site and make new CAF friends; you can talk here 24/7.

Since you know that she’s wrong for you, you are putting yourself into a difficult position in that very moment in which you decide to see her. You will save yourself a whole lot of hurt by finding other friends. It’s unlikely that she hangs with friends who don’t also practice witchcraft. You expose yourself to the occasion of sin every time that you join them.

If, in site of your staying away from this crowd, she attempts to ask you out, simply say, “No.” If she presses you for a reason, say that you don’t want to do whatever she has suggested. Then, say, “Gotta run!” and leave or hang up.

Talk to your priest and your parents. I told my son that any time he didn’t want to join kids in the neighborhood or at school to blame it on me: “My mother would never let me do that!” Or, “My mother would ground me for the rest of the summer.” You get the idea. Best luck to you. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
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Yeah I’ll definitely talk to my priest about it. She has her own little witch coven. So if anything I really need to distance myself from her friends.
 
It sounds like you know what you should do.

It is exciting when a girl has a crush on you and gives you that much attention, but in this case you must not get swept up (carried away) with that feeling.

It probably won’t be long before another girl has a crush on you, or your affection goes to another girl. Be patient as you wait for a good one, one who brings out the best in you, and you bring out the best in her.
 
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From the OP’s description of circumstances and events, I would guess they are in high school and this is not a police matter.
 
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That sounds more like you should call the police.
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I mean she has a sexual attitude but hasn’t tried anything on me. That’s one good thing she has. She understands that I’m not going to any of that. She doesn’t bother then. Again she’s nice and all so she doesn’t have any bad intentions.
 
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Nope!

If she’s into witchcraft, she has bad intentions, period—for you and everybody else.

If she’s vehemently against the Catholic Church, she has bad intentions for you.

If she makes overt sexual comments, verbally, and/or with her body movements, she has bad intentions for you.
 
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@StrangeCalico

Nope!

If she’s into witchcraft, she has bad intentions, period.

If she’s vehemently against the Catholic Church, she has bad intentions for you.

If she makes overt sexual comments, verbally, and/or with her body movements, she has bad intentions for you.
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I mean in terms of spirituality and my faith…yes she most likely has bad intentions. But her sexual part is dead. She’s stopped. I’ll try to be her friend though. I really want to help her and can’t afford to think that she will most likely end up in Hell. I’m willing to take on a stubborn person who hates the Catholic Church and help guide her back to the Church. She funny, sweet, and helpful at times. I still believe everyone has a bit of goodness in them. Even the smallest amount. Thinking about it…running away and avoiding her is dumb and cowardly. If my love to God is strong, then I should have no problem going in and helping her and learning more about her to get her out of witchcraft. It’s a risk I’m willing to take.
 
So your reason for originally posting was . . . ?
 
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So your reason for originally posting was . . . ?
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I was looking for some advice…I didn’t know what to do at first. But now I’ve thought about it. Still some advice is nice to get. I’m still learning (:
 
Be careful. Love her as human being and God’s child but be careful.
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Thinking about it…running away and avoiding her is dumb and cowardly. If my love to God is strong, then I should have no problem going in and helping her and learning more about her to get her out of witchcraft. It’s a risk I’m willing to take.
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It is not dumb and cowardly to run away if you are at risk of losing faith or changing moral priorities.
If she isn’t interested to know more about Catholicism, or don’t want convert back then you should distance yourself. You can always pray for her. Don’t dismiss her completely.
You are not bad Catholic if you move from risky situation. We cannot save everyone but we can pray.
Since she is in coven and has no intentions to go back to Church then it is pretty dangerous to push her to change her witchcraft activities or get her out of witchcraft, there is possibility of her staying where she is and for you to change your position towards your faith. It isn’t just physical component but also a spiritual.
Pray for her and testify Christ with your life but don’t expect that you can convert her, that is God’s grace!
I know what I talk about because I spent years in occult garbage.
 
Does she know you’re Catholic? She either hopes to draw you away from your faith or maybe she thinks you don’t really care about your faith to begin with. I doubt that she would still have a crush on you if she realizes that you go to mass regularly. Also, if she still pursues you then there is the possibility she wishes to corrupt you.

However it is possible that she likes you despite your faith. The only way to know that for sure is to just be friends for a bit and get to know each other better. It’s the only way to know her true intentions. I am willing to bet she will not want to be just friends and she could be only interested in corrupting you.

Please pray and often because if she is truly a practicing witch and she hates the church her intentions for you are unlikely to be good.
 
You need to stand your ground and turn her down as you would do with anyone you have no interest in dating, for whatever reason. People can be nice and polite and good looking and smart and still not be someone one we should date.
 
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