There is a vanishingly small chance that someone might not go to Hell if they do these things. However, I think it’s important to speak in plain language and tell people what the overwhelmingly most likely outcome of their behaviour is.
While I believe education of what is a sin and what isn’t is VERY important. It would save many from very confusing and potentially damning activity.
Matthew 18:18 - Amen I say to you, whatsoever you shall bind upon earth, shall be bound also in heaven ; and whatsoever you shall loose upon earth, shall be loosed also in heaven.
So, it seems to me while a person COULD go to hell for such activity. If they express true sorrow and ask for forgiveness, we are taught that overwhelmingly we may be saved. No?
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