In love with a nun

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The title is misleading. She is not a nun…
It happened to me…and she went to be a nun…
Try hard , as hard as you can. I she is to become a nun, Done be the will of God, if shes if to marry you, done be the will of God.
PFFAF…said the Above- and I will affix my signature.

except it didn’t happen to me!lol
 
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You have gotten some excellent advice here, and I can only add that there is a need on your part to spend some time with the Lord. Ask him to give you strength, and he’ll stand by you. If you truly love this woman, you will give her to God with all your love and support. The two of you can always be good friends There is nothing wrong with that.There are many different forms of love, and yours should be a love born of trust and mutual respect. She will always be your friend, and her vocation will never diminish her love for you. She will continue to love you as she loves all of God’s people The two of you share your love of God by doing his work He has a plan for you. He sees your sorrow and he’ll help you get through it. Believe that he will send someone your way that will steal your heart, and give you hers in return. Pray my son Concentrate on your studies, and trust in Jesus God Bless and Pax Vobiscum
 
Ok, very difficult situation here.

You need to be really careful, the reason is that even if she decides to leave her devotion to become nun and date you… This may come back later to you with really bad consequences.

She may feel with time incomplete like she never did what she really wanted and you may get blame cause of this… If you really love her, express clearly what you can offer her and never make her feel like you want to pull her out of her devotion, instead make her understand you want to join her in her mission but in an “informal way”.

I can tell you that you really need to show her your love and step up to almost crazy levels! If you really, really love her. If you are not welling to give your for her to this high level of compromise I think it is better to just let her go to follow her devotion. In either case God will love you and bless you both, I am pretty sure he will understand if she decides to go with you. Is better to have a nun without doubts than one in sin.

Good luck and God guide you both! 😉
 
Very difficult situation and I empathize with you. I pray that you will both discover God’s will. If she’s meant to be a nun, so it will be.
 
I might add this thought also Becoming a NUN is not exactly an overnight deal. There is a great deal of preparation, and forethought. The beginning phase is long and difficult. This is to make sure that the Vocation(God’s Calling) is actually there. She may decide anywhere during this phase( it is called the Noviciate) is not for her.Or they (her Superiors) might decide that she is destined for another calling So don’t give up hope as yet. Pray and be patient You know what you could do;There is another man on this forum who says he will hang tough until his Lady takes her final vows. He has chosen a long tough road for himself, but I commend him and my prayers are with him. Wait until she has gotten past her Novice period. By that time She’ll know, and so will you. Who knows you might meet someone else by then At any rate my prayers are with you
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Well, just directly and plainly lay all your cards on the table in front of her. Tell her you love her, that you want to marry her, and that all you want is to do is to provide for her and protect her all of your life. Tell your that you can’t imagine life without her. If her answer is, in essence, that she can and does imagine life without you, then simply get out of your chair and say, “Goodbye, Matilda” (or whatever her name is). Then never see her or talk to her again, unless she calls you or comes to you. Now, telling her all that directly and plainly, and then abruptly cutting off all contact with her MIGHT provoke her to some serious re-thinking. Possibly no man has proposed marriage to her before. Possibly she will be thunderstruck and awed by your manly boldness. But maybe not. Either way, you will get your life on track and moving into the future.
 
TheGreatestLove said:
The title is misleading. She is not a nun…
It happened to me…and she went to be a nun…
Try hard , as hard as you can. I she is to become a nun, Done be the will of God, if shes if to marry you, done be the will of God.
PFFAF…said the Above- and I will affix my signature.

except it didn’t happen to me!lol
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It happened to you too ??
Blast ! What a luck !!!
Thinking well, in my case, her life would be misery with me !
God knows best !!!
 
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