@Titivillus Thomas has questions
Howdy! As many have noted, the activities of councils can vary widely, even in neighboring jurisdictions.* If you want to read about and view videos of the Order in its best light, you can do so at their website,
The Knights bill themselves as the world’s largest fraternal, social, charitable, and insurance association. Know that the order was founded as an insurance system, at a time when such advantages often were systematically denied to Catholics, and Catholic families were liable to poverty and dissolution if the father-bread-winner died unexpectedly and unprepared. Insurance is still a fundamental part of the order, and part of how the national organization can support charitable causes ranging from financial support of Vatican broadcasting, to church buildings like the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, to pro-life political advocacy, to disaster relief and more. You will be offered the opportunity to purchase their insurance products, but never required to do so.
I’m curious to know what the process is
Linked off the above website, the order has recently begun offering an Online Membership, which does make one eligible to participate in insurance, but does not bind one to a local council. Joining a council would require going through at least the First Degree ceremony.
There are 3 primary “degrees” of membership plus one very optional “Fourth Degree”. The Knights of Columbus is
not a “secret society”, but the details of the ceremonials are the only secrets of the order. Each degree ceremony imparts a lesson on one of the Order’s core virtues of Charity, Unity, Fraternity and Patriotism. You can be assured that they none of them involve anything dire nor dangerous physically, mentally nor spiritually.
If you have any more specific question, I’d be happy to answer.
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For example: My own council is in an urban area and is full of grey, white, and no-hair members, and it seems we sometimes struggle to come up with enough members to organize a meaningful activity. Some of our neighboring suburban councils seem much more active (and youthful) in that way.