Melchior:
I am an ethnic Jew and I tend to be fairly pro-Israel. Will I be uncomfortable in an Eastern Catholic Parish? In the Orthodox Churches I have visited and several of the Orthodox people I know I have encountered a good deal of either anti-Semitism or anti-Israelism bordering on anti-Semitism. …
Do Eastern Catholics tend to be more open minded than the Orthodox about this? Or is it an identical ethos? I just don’t think I can worship in a charged ethno/political environment when I am the minority. Any thoughts?
Mel,
Good question. I’m actually surprised at the reaction you’ve encountered in the parishes of my Orthodox brothers and sisters. (I remember from your earlier post that you wife is or was Orthodox, although you didn’t say which Church). I’m going to raise the question in the Eastern Christian forum where I regularly post and see what the sense of my Orthodox friends is on the matter. I’ll get back to you on it (btw, I know you e-mailed me, but my e-mail server is acting up, so I haven’t been able to read your message, let alone reply to it - hopefully, later today.)
Since I belong to a Church which has an ethnic base of Arab Catholics, as well as the one which you’ve been visiting of late, I guess my experience with the issues you raise is probably very relevant. I would be lying if I said that, in almost 40 years as a member of a Melkite parish, I have never heard talk that was anti-Zionistic or even anti-Semitic. I will say that it’s extremely rare and that it has precipitously declined in frequency over the years, but it isn’t entirely absent.
The Cathedral community is very diverse; the largest group of ethnic Arabs in the parish are Lebanese from the Diocese of Zahleh (many of our parishes reflect mass migration from a particular place), with a smaller Syrian community, and relatively small numbers of Palestinians and Egyptians. Additionally, there are large numbers of Irish, some Byzantine Ukrainian and Russian Catholics, at least one parishoner who is a convert from Judaism, and a variety of other folks, some of whom are formally Melkites, others of whom are Latins who worship with us. Our diversity is pretty characteristic of Melkite parishes in the US.
One of the problems with Eastern Catholic and Eastern Orthodox parishes is a tendency to be so ethnocentric that they fail to embrace “outsiders” who come among them (except as customers to their annual food fairs
). This “ghetto mentality” was cited by our beloved Archbishop Joseph (Tawil), of blessed memory, as one of the two great risks to the future of the Eastern Catholic Churches (the other being assimilation):
In a ghetto, life is closed in upon itself, operating only within itself, with its own ethnic and social clichés. And the parish lives upon the ethnic character of the community; when that character disappears, the community dies and the parish dies with it.
One day all our ethnic traits - language, folklore, customs - will have disappeared. Time itself is seeing to this. And so we can not think of our communities as ethnic parishes, primarily for the service of the immigrant or the ethnically oriented, unless we wish to assure the death of our community. Our Churches are not only for our own people but are also for any of our fellow Americans who are attracted to our traditions which show forth the beauty of the universal Church and the variety of its riches.
My own experience, in visiting many Eastern Catholic parishes throughout the Northeast and mid-Atlantic areas, is that Melkite parishes are extremely open and welcoming, as are the very few Russian Catholic parishes, as well as most Greek Orthodox and Antiochian (Syrian) Orthodox parishes. As to the other 9 or 10 Eastern Catholic Churches that are represented in the US, it varies greatly from parish to parish. Certainly, in times of escalated conflict in the mid-East, the likelihood for some politicized commentary increases in the Churches which originate in that region. (I suspect that, in the 2 or 3 Melkite parishes in the US that have significant numbers of Palestinian parishoners, it may be a more regular occurrence.)
I don’t think I’ve ever heard Israel referred to as Palestine, except by Palestinians. References to ‘the Holy Land’ are few and far between (I really think that styling is more of a Latin thing) and I’ve only heard them in the context of discussing the Christian holy sites, rather than being employed as pseudonyms for Israel.
I guess, all in all, I’d encourage you to stay with us at the Cathedral. I have no doubt you and your wife will be welcomed.
Many years,
Neil