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I am an EMHC, and serve in different churches from time to time when there is a need and no one else comes forward. Two weeks ago, Father looked at me and I got up and went forward and administered the cup (also another EMHC administered the cup on the other side.) Anyway, before even returning to the altar, Father gestured us toward the sacristy and the other minister purified the glass (!) cup and I felt I had to do the same because if I left the cup there unpurified, there might be an irreverance by someone not knowing it hadn’t been cleansed and the church has no sacrarium… It was an on the spot decision I didn’t feel good about.
I went to confession and told my confessor who gave me absolution but no instruction on how to handle this and I forgot to ask about how serious a sin it is. Yet here I am two weeks later in the same church, different priest, with him doing the same thing. And me doing the same thing. But it would have been very disruptive to disobey him and just go to the altar and leave the drained (?) cup. Or undrained cup. Tonight at Mass, I knew they were a minister short, but I knelt and put my head down at the Domine non sum Dignus so if the priest looked at me and gestured to me I wouldn’t see him. This seems ridiculous to be hiding, yet I am afraid I am sinning by being drawn into this situation. It isn’t even my parish, and the pastor (not one of the two priests above) seems uninterested. I spoke to him about two months ago when it seemed EMHC’s were just rinsing the cups down the drain without even purifying. Sometimes this is the only church I can get to for daily Mass. I don’t want to sin. What am I to do? How serious a sin is it? Ideas?
I went to confession and told my confessor who gave me absolution but no instruction on how to handle this and I forgot to ask about how serious a sin it is. Yet here I am two weeks later in the same church, different priest, with him doing the same thing. And me doing the same thing. But it would have been very disruptive to disobey him and just go to the altar and leave the drained (?) cup. Or undrained cup. Tonight at Mass, I knew they were a minister short, but I knelt and put my head down at the Domine non sum Dignus so if the priest looked at me and gestured to me I wouldn’t see him. This seems ridiculous to be hiding, yet I am afraid I am sinning by being drawn into this situation. It isn’t even my parish, and the pastor (not one of the two priests above) seems uninterested. I spoke to him about two months ago when it seemed EMHC’s were just rinsing the cups down the drain without even purifying. Sometimes this is the only church I can get to for daily Mass. I don’t want to sin. What am I to do? How serious a sin is it? Ideas?