Is it true that you cannot get married if known to be impotent?

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If I understood correctly, a bishop on Catholic Answers Live just said that if you are known to be impotent and for sure that you will never conceive, then you cannot get married if you know this before hand? YIKES???
 
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Shepard:
If I understood correctly, a bishop on Catholic Answers Live just said that if you are known to be impotent and for sure that you will never conceive, then you cannot get married if you know this before hand? YIKES???
Yep. Why would you marry if you can’t consummate it or ever have kids?

I was wondering this though, couldn’t someone just take Viagra or get an implant?
 
i would argue with that bishop…

what if the guy is 80 years old…?

something screwy, or i guess not…
 
Silly me, I was thinking of infertile… if you are infertile can you still get married?
 
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LoneRanger:
i would argue with that bishop…

what if the guy is 80 years old…?
It’s true. If you are not capable of consumating the marriage, you cannot get married. It doesn’t matter how old you are.
 
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Shepard:
If I understood correctly, a bishop on Catholic Answers Live just said that if you are known to be impotent and for sure that you will never conceive, then you cannot get married if you know this before hand? YIKES???
The term as used in Canon Law has a wider definition then what is normally considered. It also must be remembered that it is different from Infertile.
 
don’t think so guys…

injured vets with out the necessary parts or ablity due to battle can marry and have …
 
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LoneRanger:
don’t think so guys…

injured vets with out the necessary parts or ablity due to battle can marry and have …
They did not contract a valid marriage if they attempted marriage in the Church. They might be legally married, but not sacramentally.
 
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Genesis315:
Yep. Why would you marry if you can’t consummate it or ever have kids?

I was wondering this though, couldn’t someone just take Viagra or get an implant?
Is this also true of women who have had hysterectomies…?
 
I think the issue is if the other person didn’t know about the condition before the marriage. Who in the Catholic church is going to tell an old widow and widower they can’t get married because they’re unable to have any more kids.
 
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mjdonnelly:
I think the issue is if the other person didn’t know about the condition before the marriage. Who in the Catholic church is going to tell an old widow and widower they can’t get married because they’re unable to have any more kids.
Mike, Impotency and infertility are not the same thing. Infertility is not an impediment, hence marriage beyond the child bearing years is not invalid. Impotence, the inability to have sexual intercourse, IS an impediment.
 
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Bella3502:
Is this also true of women who have had hysterectomies…?
Bella, a hysterectomy does not make a woman impotent but only infertile. Infertility is not an impediment. Inability to complete the sex act (impotence) is an impediment.
 
Would that be limited to impotence that can not be medically treated in such a way that the sexual act might be completed in the normal way?
 
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wet-rat:
Would that be limited to impotence that can not be medically treated in such a way that the sexual act might be completed in the normal way?
To meet the criteria for the impediment of impotence, the impotence must exist at the time the marriage is attempted (not afterwards, so for example if someone were paralyzed in a car wreck after they were married this does not invalidate the marriage) and it must be what is called “legally perpetual” meaning it cannot be cured or overcome. Impotence may be absolute, meaning the person is impotent with all members of the opposite sex or the impotence may be what is called relative-- meaning they are impotent only with the chosen spouse. This could occur when there is a large physical disproportion in size of the sex organs rendering a completed act of intercourse impossible.
 
What if a couple decided to abstain from sex, in imitation of Mary and Joseph? If the man just happened to be impotent, but neither had any intention of consumating the relationship, would they still be forbidden to marry?
 
If one is permanently impotent, then one cannot marry. A sterile person can still get married:
Can. 1084 §1 Antecedent and perpetual impotence to have sexual intercourse, whether on the part of the man or on that of the woman, whether absolute or relative, by its very nature invalidates marriage.
§2 If the impediment of impotence is doubtful, whether the doubt be one of law or one of fact, the marriage is not to be prevented nor, while the doubt persists, is it to be declared null.
§3 Without prejudice to the provisions of can. 1098, sterility neither forbids nor invalidates a marriage.
 
Sterility can be an impediment to marriage if the party conceals the fact.
 
But why? If being infertile is not an issue, then why is being impotent an issue? What about old people; many old guys can’t get aroused, and many old people marry because they want to spend their remaining years with a loving companion, not because they want hot sex. If 83 year-old Homer Jones can’t sustain an erect penis, should his planned marriage to 81 year-old Edith Smith be cancelled until he can? What the heck?
 
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norbert:
But why? If being infertile is not an issue, then why is being impotent an issue? … What the heck?
I don’t now but I’ve been told that if you can’t satisfy your partner’s needs you are in essence leading them into temptation by not providing them with a viable alternative.
 
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