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You think that a strong second option has been presented because an author has tried to equate NFP and Contraception in an effort to justify contraception? You should start a new thread then. It’s no longer an issue of whether NFP is open to procreation…the author assumes it to be. But then he tries to define it as a form of contraception in an effort to justify contraception. Your new thread should be titles something like “Can contraception be as open to procreation as NFP is?”I think that this article published by the Jesuit magazine America about the 25th anniversary of Humanae Vitae sums up the “two schools of thought” within the church on this subject… and it, I think, articulates a strong “second option” for thinking about this hotly debated topic …
“The second position insists that the basic issue is not primarily one of method, but of attitude. Spouses are called to generous but responsible openness to new life. Where methods are concerned, more intrusive forms of contraception will not be used where less intrusive ones (natural family planning) satisfy the needs of marital love and responsible parenthood. But artificial methods cannot be ruled out as intrinsically morally wrong.”
americamagazine.org/issue/100/humanae-vitae-25-years-later
But here you have already been provided that answer (several times now):
The difference is this:
NFP - I am willing to abstain from sex in order to avoid children at this time. But during the infertile times, I will enjoy the Marital embrace with my spouse. When I DO enjoy that embrace, it will be completed naturally, just the way God designed it (ordered, per se, toward procreation…even if procreation is not likely).
Contraception - I am NOT willing to abstiain in order to avoid children at this time, and instead will work to remove the procreative aspect of the sexual act, thereby thwarting by my own power what only God should have power over…since it is HE, not man, who designed the conjugal union.
God has given us His Church to teach infallibly on faith and morals and She confirms the natural moral law with Her doctrines.
The difference is that, with contraception (like condoms), a couple deliberately places a barrier to procreation while seeking the pleasure of the marital act. With Natural Birth Regulation (NBR) the couple uses what God has provided without deliberately placing a barrier to thwart the procreative end of marriage. NBR may be used only for serious reasons which Christ’s Church has identified, without which the action would be objectively gravely sinful also because it uses a natural process for a wrong end.
God has provided the infertile period so that we may responsibly follow His Will and use it, where necessary, for serious reasons.
In *Casti Connubii *(II, 59), 1930, Pope Pius XI teaches on timing, or infertile impediments within marriage, and shows the value of the secondary ends of marriage:
“Nor are those considered as acting against nature who in the married state use their right in the proper manner although on account of natural reasons either of time or of certain defects, new life cannot be brought forth. For in matrimony as well as in the use of the matrimonial rights there are also secondary ends, such as mutual aid, the cultivating of mutual love, and the quieting of concupiscence which husband and wife are not forbidden to consider so long as they are subordinated to the primary end and so long as the intrinsic nature of the act is preserved.”
Current knowledge of how a woman’s body works we see that women were designed so that almost 2/3rds of the time sex is inherently infertile. This fact shows that the unitive function of sex is just as important as the procreative aspect. At one time it was thought infertility was always an “abnormal” state. Now we find that infertility has been designed as a “normal” state a majority of the time in women.