Is there such a thing as debunking in Orthodox Church? How the marriage is annulled

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Debunking?

Annulments can be had for mental problems, fraud and other issues. How this happens varies according to the Church. I know in the Syriac Orthodox Church, the Patriarch personally must declare an annulment (I assume with the approval of the Holy Synod) if it is to be recognized. It’s very rare because of the difficulty in getting this done, it’s often much easier to have an ecclesiastical divorce.
 
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Debunking?

Annulments can be had for mental problems, fraud and other issues. How this happens varies according to the Church. I know in the Syriac Orthodox Church, the Patriarch personally must declare an annulment (I assume with the approval of the Holy Synod) if it is to be recognized. It’s very rare because of the difficulty in getting this done, it’s often much easier to have an ecclesiastical divorce.
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The husband is alcoholic, gambler and drugs addict , he makes the life in the house unbearable, is there a reason for debunking? The husband loose his business and has got a bunkrupt, but there is no justification to behave like this. Young wife with 2 children had enough, she wants to separate, can she hope for another marriage?
 
Yes, then the correct word is “annulment”, and the question probably is -what is right thing for her to do - divorce or annulment?
 
First husband is willing to re-unite but he is not trustworthy. Second husband is from civil marriage and the second child is from him. Second husband wants to re-unite and actually is the closest candidate for re-union, even if he is 20 years older, and is almoust forgiven for the past accidental adultery with another woman. And there is another person who is dying from love(unexpected and torturous love) and sees the hopelessness of situation. And what to advise in this case? Who has more rights for this woman, who her self does not know what to do? Sin is nearby here, sin is at the door, because to get married with a woman who has alive husband and the second…kind of husband is unpermitted…!?
 
How about living independently? No one has rights over any other adult. The woman should consult a spiritual director, preferably an elderly nun perhaps even widowed, and remain uncommitted to anyone but her child and God. For the time being.
 
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How about living independently? No one has rights over any other adult. The woman should consult a spiritual director, preferably an elderly nun perhaps even widowed, and remain uncommitted to anyone but her child and God. For the time being.
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What third person should do? The one who is dying from love
 
English may not be a first language for all posters. Definition of Accidental: happening by chance, unintentionally, or unexpectedly.
 
First thing is to consult the Spiritual Father, nothing should be done on this issue without his (name removed by moderator)ut.
 
You meet the woman, you communicate with her, you work with her in the same office, you go to work as happy school boy, every day like a fest, and then suddenly you fired, and at this moment you realize that you are in tortures, you must see her, otherwise its unbearable, and you realize that in the last 20 YEARS you never felt love, you were waiting your special one, looks like you finally met her but she is forbidden
 
It’s been a while since I’ve been in love, and I would like to testify.
Thanks be to God- the time is the best teacher. ( and the doctor-healer )
I thank God that he saved me from this woman.
I’m very sensitive to female beauty but sometimes beauty is a huge deception.
And sometimes just a cosmetic transformation hypnotizes the male eye (and the heart) to such an extent that we become obsessed with this or that woman.
In any case, I realized that beauty is not every thing.
There are Christians who believe that when choosing a partner in life, one must choose Christ first and ignore the appearance of the girl. I partially agree with these statements( Man by the way is also a rather weak creation, and ungodly wife can seduce and degrade the husband. So, therefore the marriage with a woman who is not consecrated to God is very risky, risky for a man who can bury his mission, his spiritual house-building potential.) but with another side, It’s hard for me to come to terms with the idea that when even a girl’s breath is not nice to me…How will I go with her in life without loving her? ( so love and prettiness in this case is important for me)
But what I want to say with my experience:
  • Beauty can be very deceptive thing
  • Beware of falling in love with an unbelieving girl or woman. ( I think that you do not even need to give her attention signs, I think that there is no friendship between a man and a woman, eventually you can find yourself in the tornings and sufferings from which it is very difficult to get out. Although with God’s help everything is possible.)
    I certainly do not pray enough, but only through God’s mercy you can come out of a very difficult situation of falling in love with wrong person.
    The greatest achievement of a Christian is to be able to listen the Lord’s whisper, who tells us what we shouldn’t do. And our huge problem is that we are not able to listen the Lord’s whisper, Lord’s voice.
    Thanks to those who prayed / praying for me.I gradually get out of this state of obsession with that woman. :blessyou:
 
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