Is thinking about future sex wrong?

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When I say future sex I mean is it wrong for a teenager to imagine what its like to have sex with their future spouse (and not outside of marriage)? And I don’t mean in a lustful way, but more in a way of wondering what its like to have so much love and desiring that love. Thinking of sex in a more beautiful aspect.

Or is having any thoughts and imaginings of sex considered wrong? Even when its not meant to be lustful?
 
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When I say future sex I mean is it wrong for a teenager to imagine what its like to have sex with their future spouse (and not outside of marriage)? And I don’t mean in a lustful way, but more in a way of wondering what its like to have so much love and desiring that love. Thinking of sex in a more beautiful aspect.

Or is having any thoughts and imaginings of sex considered wrong? Even when its not meant to be lustful?
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2351 Lust is disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Sexual pleasure is morally disordered when sought for itself, isolated from its procreative and unitive purposes.

If a thought is lustful (as defined above) for you as an unmarried person even if it is a thought of something beautiful and holy, it is wrong to allow such thoughts to linger and to continue dwelling on them.
 
To add to what Nate is saying, there is no actual spouse involved. Therefore there is no one to unite you with, and no possibility of procreation. Therefore such thoughts would be necessarily lustful, and even if we ignored all that and said it wasn’t it would still be near occasion to sin.
 
Thinking about future sex is a waste of time.

Instead, think about making MONEY.

Money is what you will need a lot of in the future in order to have a spouse and all that sex that will produce all those kids which will call for even more money!

Now is the time to plan and think about how you are going to get all the money you will need in future, so you can enjoy your married sex life later on!

Now, get to it!
 
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