Could you please explained the part I bolded in much more detail,please?.Would say a happy functional family if give up your alcoholism or a spouse who reciprocates your love or a secure job if you refrain from immorality and apply yourself during a school’s “exam season” count as
“goods which they promise and to which they are oriented are illusory”?
Sidetrack, are you wondering if giving up alcoholism or some other vice for the sake of others is a hollow good? It’s not hollow at all! Are you wondering whether giving up such things for the improvement of one’s life and soul are hollow as well? Not at all! To give up vice and to seek virtue is never just a benefit to ourselves, but will always dispose us to be a blessing to others as well. Jesus says in the summary of the Law: Love God and love your neighbor. And here’s something wonderful about the nature of love and the beauty of Jesus’ summary: you cannot love God without also loving your neighbor!
When we act in pursuit of self-seeking pleasure, however–when we attempt to appropriate the good things we should naturally desire instead of loving them as God’s good
gifts to us and for his sake–then the goods to which we lay claim often seem good only to us. And only for a moment. If I indulge my lust, I may find that I have pleasure–but it’s fleeting and will leave me empty. If I covet something my neighbor has and I steal it from him, I may think I’ve done something quite lovely, but in depriving my neighbor of one of his goods, I’ve sinned egregiously. In seeking our own pleasure at the expense of others, or at the expense of our own virtue, we do not thereby gain hold of some rare treasure–instead, we move ourselves closer to destruction and death. That’s what sin is: self-destruction and death.
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What do mean by “dead letter”
?.When you say* “and much more demanding”* do you mean like* say*…-_-…
a set of rules?.That’s how morality feels like to me a lot of times espeically when I feel more jaded.
I’m saying that when we conceive of the moral life as just following a set of rules, we may not actually be grasping the big picture. The rules are there to help us grasp the big picture. When St. Paul writes of the necessity of love in that famous passage from 1 Corinthians, he’s basically saying, “if you give everything away, if you follow all the rules, if you do everything you’re supposed to and are a really impressive person, but you don’t have love, what good is any of it?” St. James writes of the Royal Law of Love, and St. Augustine writes that if we’re seeking for a single rule to follow, that rule is: Love. It’s not always very easy, and that’s why rules are there–to help us better understand what it is to love. But following the rules begrudgingly or out of fear or because one is forensically racking up nice points is no replacement for just living a life of self-giving love after the pattern of Lord Jesus, his Mother, and his Saints. That’s what I mean by more demanding–so often, it’s easy for us to go through the motions. What’s hard, but so so so necessary, is actually living that life of self-giving love.
I hope that helps!
Under the Mercy,
Mark
All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!