I am very familiar with a number of L.C. priests and brothers. Our bishop (St. Augustine, FL) has welcomed them to minister in our diocese. I have my sons involved in a youth program run by the L.C.s. The boys’ club meets weekly at a local parish and is run by us Dads. None of the L.C. priests actually live in the area, so they set up the boys’ clubs and provide materials (Gospel reflections and structured activities) and then they have regional weekend boys’ retreats run by a L.C. priest and one or two L.C. brothers who are studying to be priests.
They encourage the Dads to attend the weekend with their sons. We just had one in Central Florida with about 50 boys and 15 dads. I’ve been on five of these retreats with three of my four sons (my youngest is not old enough yet). I also have participated in the local boys’ club.
I must say that the L.C. program is perfectly suited for boys. At both the club meetings and retreats they mix it about 75/25 sports and physical activities to spiritual activities, which is about the right ratio for boys. They are very orthodox and balanced and it is the only place where my sons have had a priest ask them to consider whether God has a vocation for them. I went to Catholic school through high school and was never asked this by a priest.
All the L.C. priests I have met are young (under 40 yrs) and they encourage the boys to be boys. I like that. These young men get into the sporting activities with the kids and are great role models. I believe that there will be vocations out of our club just because of the positive influence of the L.C. priests.
On the spiritual side, Mass is said every day during the retreat and is portrayed as the most important part of the weekend. Rosary and prayers are said daily, confession is offered throughout the weekend, there is a daily Gospel reflection given by the priest or brother, and Dads are encouraged to get involved in all aspects of the retreat.
Some have criticized the L.C.s for being controlling and aggressive in their “recruiting” and I don’t doubt that some of the stories of young men feeling this and leaving the seminary or school are true. However, it is all perspective. The L.C.s are serious about their mission and they are intense in their desire to win souls. They encourage the boys and dads to go out into the world and share Jesus with their friends and family. They believe that there are many evil forces that try to destroy each vocation, therefore, they are protective of their vocations. I suppose if someone doesn’t have a true vocation or if their spirituality isn’t a fit with the L.C.s, then this could come across as controlling. There is a fine line between discipline and control and that line is often blurred by individual perspective.
Sorry to be so long, but having had so much first-hand knowledge of the L.C.s, I wouldn’t want you to avoid them based on heresay. I agree with previous posters who advised you to contact each order you are considering and spend time with them.
BTW, the L.C.s have a lay organization called Regnum Christi. Although approached about joining, I decided not to after much prayer and consideration. It is a very demanding program that I felt would take me away from my family too much. It is an intense spiritual lifestyle that has also come under criticism by those who have joined without giving it serious consideration and then found it to be too much. But, again, it’s all perspective. Those that I know who are committed members love the program.
Blessings