My best friend who’s Lutheran started asking me about the Papacy and I told her I thought Pope John Paul II was one of the holiest men who ever lived. She send me this article and tld me it was very concerning that a man who could stand up against Communism, ignored the child molestation that was uncovered in the 1980s. What are good responses to this article?
thenation.com/article/160242/shame-john-paul-ii-how-sex-abuse-scandal-stained-his-papacy
Pope John Paul made public apologies for it; he came to the US and met with some victims, if I remember rightly. Very few bishops have done the same.
There is a double edged issue here – for I am one of the people who had a pedophile priest in my parish with kids; and we’re not talking the 1980’s – we’re talking the 90’s. But I tell you, even with what I have experienced – I believe Pope John Paul II to be a very holy man, and I don’t believe it really possible that he could have done much better. The media coverage of him really is just hype. If she want’s to know what a victim feels, it’s not hate toward PJP-II; but it is disgust with my own archdiocese!
To prove the point, (and I can produce evidence if needed):
I had an email conversation with Cathy Shannon at the Archdiocese of Portland.
After the first email, she stopped responding to me.
This is an excerpt from OCT 8,2009. Cathy is the one placed there to supposedly be “sensitive” to us that have had pedophiles in their parish as a “solution” to the priests covering it up; and this is the gist of my letter:
** On Mrs. XXXXXXXX’s “Growing in faith” handout to parents which I was given, belatedly, it says – “Please feel free to visit our classroom anytime**.”
** What I witnessed did cause me concern, for one of the children complained bitterly about having to go through the called to protect session – and I began to suspect I was not the only parent who was not informed of the nature of the material to be presented and especially not their right sanctioned directly by the Vatican and agreed to by Vlazny, to teach this particular material on their own.
As I work with a Psychiatrist who deals with child abuse issues as a specialty; I asked her regarding what I ought to do for my child. She informed me of documents from Rome and advised that it would be best for me to deal with my own child specifically on this issue – but unfortunately that was before I knew when the class would occur; so – hoping to avoid future conflicts – I desired to open a discussion with the religious coordinator Elizabeth Millager.
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** My first concern is that I am being told conflicting statements regarding the Archdioce’s policy. Is it in fact Archdiocese policy that a parent may not observe a class at all because of the statement aforementioned that a background check is required? If this is so, could you explain to me how I could have been in error in informing Mrs. XXXXX that her invitation to parents to visit was “misleading”?
Etc.
I’ve removed the teacher’s name as she really was innocent and Elizabeth Millager’s chumyness with my wife and panic at the situation was the sole driver of the teachers reactions to me.
It makes me sad that I made that volunteer teacher uncomfortable, but at the same time – this isn’t PJP-II’s fault, nor is it Pope Benedict’s; This is just plain old neighbor bullying neighbor to protect an “idealized” church that doesn’t exist.
Tell you friend that the same happened during the scandal, and a great deal of this happened at the hands of parishoners – not just clergy.
Presently my wife is now divorcing me, and on that score – the Archdiocese (so far) is repeating the action of Cathy Shannon, and I am not getting a response.
I can’t help but wonder if they looked up the baptismal certificate of my son, and realizing they have a bomb – just are refusing to answer out of fear.
So let your friend know this – I STILL love the Catholic Church in spite of what happened; but it is true that there was AND STILL IS a very grave problem. It also goes beyond the Catholic church, and is found in public and private schools, and many other institutions which are only now beginning to be examined.
Our society as a whole, here in the USA, is as guilty for what happened as the priests and bishops are who failed to do anything more than political bold facing.
I have received no reply regarding my questions about the CCD program at st. Wenceslaus. I have since gotten fr. Jim Stange’s e-mail, and have received no replay from him either.
I would like at least a reply indicating you received the earlier e-mail regarding “actual” diocesan policy about parents visiting their children’s CCD classes;
My concern is that I am either being forgotten, or this e-mail is somehow out of service – so even if you can’t answer the question at this time, at least let me know you have it.
That would save on registered mail.
P.S. There was no response after the first e-mail…
Since Pope John Paul, II, did respond. That alone makes him a hero in my eyes.