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As fair warning: bypassing steps in the Church’s established procedures will definitely not help one’s case.the Lay Witness Protocol may be alright
As fair warning: bypassing steps in the Church’s established procedures will definitely not help one’s case.the Lay Witness Protocol may be alright
…and other people’s attempts, in similar situations, have been equally unfruitful.You can try reasoning (charitably) with the pastor, or with the bishop, but my attempts have been unfruitful.
Not to argue with you (I’m not going to argue with those who have more information than I do on the required procedures. But I think such required procedures are unenlightened, to say the least. It puts the parishioner in the vulnerable position of directly confronting someone in a significantly greater position of power, but to whom simultaneously that parishioner is dependent on, for spiritual services, for liturgical needs, etc. I have not met a single priest, even the least prideful of them, who does not feel threatened or at least uncomfortable when a parishioner challenges them on some issue like this. I don’t care how much “charity” is extended. Priests don’t like it. Period. And I can’t say I blame them. (Not for appointing lay preachers! But for having parishioners “correct” them.)
They are very helpful for people who don’t skip any of the procedural steps.In terms of process, these extracts from the 2004 Instruction Redemptionis Sacramentum may be helpful
So if it was a man giving “conservative” interpretations of the gospel reading regarding abortion, the sacraments, sin, and the need for repentance then you’d be fine with it?Oh, by the way, the laity given this “reflection” are always women, and almost always a very liberal interpretation of the gospel reading. We hear much about social justice, being inclusive, accepting others where they are, but rarely about the horrors of abortion, the sacraments, sin, the need for repentence, etc.
On the other hand, I’ve heard many success stories about informed people gently and charitably approaching their priests with concerns like these.I have not met a single priest, even the least prideful of them, who does not feel threatened or at least uncomfortable when a parishioner challenges them on some issue like this.
I completely agree.However, consider how much worse the priest might feel if he gets called out by the bishop out of the blue without ever knowing that any of his parishioners had a problem with what he was doing. Or if he was aware that some people had a problem, he can probably already guess who it is that reported him. Only now, he gets to imagine the worst because someone didn’t even want to say anything to his face. The person then has lost the chance to diffuse the situation by approaching the priest without rancor.
No, I would not be ok with it. The priest and deacons have years of theological training and are the appropriate teachers of the faithful at the celebration of the mass. My point that I was making is that not only are these lay persons delivering the homily, they are frequently promoting a theology that is not in line with mainstream Catholic teaching, and represent a opportunity for error in the teaching of the faithful.So if it was a man giving “conservative” interpretations of the gospel reading regarding abortion, the sacraments, sin, and the need for repentance then you’d be fine with it?
The point I’m making is that he needn’t guess at all if the parishioner approaches him, and then (later) either that or a different parishioner approaches the bishop’s office due to lack of resolution. The parishioner has no protection in that case, no anonymity. In many cases I have seen anything from discomfort & tension to serious breaks between a priest and one or more parishioners out of such an “approaching,” which is unresolved at that level and becomes escalated to a higher level. (Don’t worry; I wasn’t one doing any reporting.)Or if he was aware that some people had a problem, he can probably already guess who it is that reported him.