Late masses & confessions: Why aren't there more?

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Hi. This is my first post. It’s good to be here and I’m hoping for some answers and advice.
I was wondering why more parishes don’t offer late mass on Sunday. I used to live in an area where multiple paishes had late mass on Sunday, at 5, 6, and 7pm. As some one who has a late work schedule all week, I depended on this. These masses were very popular and usually were packed. Full of all age groups, families, single people, etc. Where I live now the latest mass I can find on Sunday is 11:15 am. This doesn’t make a lot of sense to me.
It’s just a sad fact of our society that people work crazy hours and everything is opened 24hours a day. Many of people work 6 days a week, with Sunday being their only day off. It’s their day of rest and worship.
Personally, I used to drift in and out of sleep when I had attended early masses. It’s only natural that faithful people would want to go to mass rested and alert with a renewed mind.
Most parishes have 2 or sometimes 3 masses on Sunday already, but they are usually all in the morning. I don’t know if it’s just the state I live in or if this happens all over the country, but I’m sure that people everywhere want later mass times.
I have written to my new diocese, but haven’t recieved a response yet. I have yet to find a parish home because every Sunday I find myself driving across state lines to go where there are late masses. Which brings me to confession.
Most of the confession times in my diocese are listed in the bulletin as: “Confessions: 2:30pm to 3:15pm on Saturday or by appointment”. Saturdays, and every weekday for that matter, are out of the question for me and my husband and probably a lot of other people. Our only options are to either, make an appointment for a Sunday, (which we never feel comfortable doing) or drive across state lines to the shrine where they offer confessions from 1pm to 4pm on Sunday. We always end up driving to the shrine.
To wrap this up, I just want to know what I can do to help myself and all the other lay people who find themselves in a similar predicament. I do believe the Lord is telling me to advocate for this. If at least one parish in every diocese could have a late Sunday mass and a Sunday option of confession, It would help people like me a great deal. This way no one would have an excuse not to go to mass or confession…in fact I can guarantee confession attendance will go up. Thanks for listening, and I look forward to your advice.
In His hope, Jess
 
Hi. This is my first post. It’s good to be here and I’m hoping for some answers and advice.
I was wondering why more parishes don’t offer late mass on Sunday. I used to live in an area where multiple paishes had late mass on Sunday, at 5, 6, and 7pm. As some one who has a late work schedule all week, I depended on this. These masses were very popular and usually were packed. Full of all age groups, families, single people, etc. Where I live now the latest mass I can find on Sunday is 11:15 am. This doesn’t make a lot of sense to me.
It’s just a sad fact of our society that people work crazy hours and everything is opened 24hours a day. Many of people work 6 days a week, with Sunday being their only day off. It’s their day of rest and worship.
Personally, I used to drift in and out of sleep when I had attended early masses. It’s only natural that faithful people would want to go to mass rested and alert with a renewed mind.
Most parishes have 2 or sometimes 3 masses on Sunday already, but they are usually all in the morning. I don’t know if it’s just the state I live in or if this happens all over the country, but I’m sure that people everywhere want later mass times.
I have written to my new diocese, but haven’t recieved a response yet. I have yet to find a parish home because every Sunday I find myself driving across state lines to go where there are late masses. Which brings me to confession.
Most of the confession times in my diocese are listed in the bulletin as: “Confessions: 2:30pm to 3:15pm on Saturday or by appointment”. Saturdays, and every weekday for that matter, are out of the question for me and my husband and probably a lot of other people. Our only options are to either, make an appointment for a Sunday, (which we never feel comfortable doing) or drive across state lines to the shrine where they offer confessions from 1pm to 4pm on Sunday. We always end up driving to the shrine.
To wrap this up, I just want to know what I can do to help myself and all the other lay people who find themselves in a similar predicament. I do believe the Lord is telling me to advocate for this. If at least one parish in every diocese could have a late Sunday mass and a Sunday option of confession, It would help people like me a great deal. This way no one would have an excuse not to go to mass or confession…in fact I can guarantee confession attendance will go up. Thanks for listening, and I look forward to your advice.
In His hope, Jess
With the shortage of priests in most areas. the dioceses do the best they can.
In the Bible belt wher I now live, Catholics are scattered. We do the best we can with how it is, and thank God! Peace, Carlan
 
Are you currently living in Connecticut? If so, I know of several late Sunday masses in the Diocese of Norwich, usually offered near Colleges. Confession, not so much, but the Cathedral offers daily confession at before or after the 12 noon mass. As for Bridgeport or Hartford, I don’t know the mass situation, but I’m sure in the some of the cities you could find something.

As for encouraging more late masses, keep in mind that priests, at least around here, are limited to about 3 masses each Sunday. Its a day of rest and prayer for them as well.
 
Running dude, Thank you. I didn’t know the Norwich Cathedral had confession on Sunday. That is good news. I’d like to keep in touch with you since you’re from my area. Anytime a late mass or confession comes up please let me know. I want everyone to know that I know that priests are not the problem. I never once blamed them. I do know how parish politics can be though. Sometimes it’s the parishners/administrators that call the shots as far as scheduling. I am 30 years old and a convert from protestantism. Believe me I am grateful for all the Church has done for me personally and for the world. I do feel that Catholic laity can learn a thing or two from protestants when it comes to making things happen. In many of the parishes I’ve seen, it’s just the same cast of characters that have been running things since before I was born and even new priests get the bad end of the stick if they try new things. Please pray for me that my effort to create a dialogue about this issue is truely blessed and for the good of all. <3 Jess
 
Running dude, Thank you. I didn’t know the Norwich Cathedral had confession on Sunday. That is good news. I’d like to keep in touch with you since you’re from my area. Anytime a late mass or confession comes up please let me know. I want everyone to know that I know that priests are not the problem. I never once blamed them. I do know how parish politics can be though. Sometimes it’s the parishners/administrators that call the shots as far as scheduling. I am 30 years old and a convert from protestantism. Believe me I am grateful for all the Church has done for me personally and for the world. I do feel that Catholic laity can learn a thing or two from protestants when it comes to making things happen. In many of the parishes I’ve seen, it’s just the same cast of characters that have been running things since before I was born and even new priests get the bad end of the stick if they try new things. Please pray for me that my effort to create a dialogue about this issue is truely blessed and for the good of all. <3 Jess
Your welcome, nice to run into another Nutmegger every now and then 🙂

Unfortunately, I double checked the Cathedral website, and it doesn’t have noontime confession on Sundays, just weekdays :(. It does have a late confession time, 7-7:30 on Saturday if that helps, as well as a 4-4:30. The noontime weekday ones get busy, so you should get there by 11:30!

Since I’m not sure which area your in, I know of a 5 pm Sunday mass at Saint Sebastian and a ~7 pm mass at the chapel at Wesleyan, both in Middletown. UConn has a 7pm and 9pm mass during the school term, and Saint Patrick Cathedral has also has a 5 pm mass.

Hopefully one of those isn’t too far! Many other parishes might have a youth or teen mass in the afternoon too.
 
Your welcome, nice to run into another Nutmegger every now and then 🙂

Unfortunately, I double checked the Cathedral website, and it doesn’t have noontime confession on Sundays, just weekdays :(. It does have a late confession time, 7-7:30 on Saturday if that helps, as well as a 4-4:30. The noontime weekday ones get busy, so you should get there by 11:30!

Since I’m not sure which area your in, I know of a 5 pm Sunday mass at Saint Sebastian and a ~7 pm mass at the chapel at Wesleyan, both in Middletown. UConn has a 7pm and 9pm mass during the school term, and Saint Patrick Cathedral has also has a 5 pm mass.

Hopefully one of those isn’t too far! Many other parishes might have a youth or teen mass in the afternoon too.
Thanks running dude, I live in Killingly which borders RI. It’d take me over an hour to get to Hartford or Middletown. I’m glad they have those masses there, but I just wish the Norwich diocese had at least one confession on Sunday. I respect everyone’s answers but I still think that even in smaller towns, we have a 24/7 work culture. There must be a couple of parishes that would be open to the idea. 🙂
 
We are blessed with masses all morning, day and night! The last chance mass is at 9pm. Two things: advocate for it and maybe offer to help get it started! Gage interest through the bulletin, plan an evening meeting, etc. Second, unless you work all am … And late evening on saturday you might ask yourself if it’s a matter of need or comfort. Could you get to bed early saturday Night to get up and go before Work? Oh and have you checked religious commnities near you? Many have mass in their communities. God bless you and welcome to our Catholic family !
 
We are blessed with masses all morning, day and night! The last chance mass is at 9pm. Two things: advocate for it and maybe offer to help get it started! Gage interest through the bulletin, plan an evening meeting, etc. Second, unless you work all am … And late evening on saturday you might ask yourself if it’s a matter of need or comfort. Could you get to bed early saturday Night to get up and go before Work? Oh and have you checked religious commnities near you? Many have mass in their communities. God bless you and welcome to our Catholic family !
Thank you, Diosesamor. I will take your advice. 🙂
 
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