In other words if I arrive just after the beginning of the first reading, after everyone’s seated, I miss out on everything up until the Gospel (after all, that’s when people stand up, isn’t it?). What mortal good does that do to anybody?
It’s hardly fair to people who arrive late, often through no fault of their own. I find it incredibly sad that your father should be made to suffer the punishment of being deprived of the Mass, for something which was outside his control. And if it IS their fault then they need even more to hear and see as much of the Mass as possible, since by doing so they gain the maximum possible of its graces which they are in need of.
People can discreetly and without disruption enter at any point of the Mass and shouldn’t be hindered, 99% of the time the mere act of someone entering and finding a seat isn’t a disruption at all in except in a few hypersensitive minds.
I entered once when the consecration of the Mass before the one I intended to attend was taking place. I found an empty place, went in and dropped straight to my knees - no disruption to anyone. What is wrong with that?
Hi, Lily.
I never said anything about missing any part of Mass. My dad has never missed Mass by being late (other than the parts said while he was looking for a parking place).
I don’t mean standing out in the vestibule: I mean in the back of the church, in the space behind the last pew. “Sharpshooters” refers to the men in this area who remain there for Mass (often because there is no seating left) because they go down on one knee for the Canon.
Depending on the Mass and the church, sometimes finding a seat once Mass has started can be problematic. St Teresa’s in St John’s was regularly packed, especially in the rear rows; to find a seat, one would have to try and make a “grand procession” to a front row and then crawl over the end-people to get to the space in the middle. OTOH, at the Basilica there was often no problem finding a seat (big church, old parish, fewer and fewer attendees). OTTH (on the third hand), St Pius X had widely-spaced pews: you had to take a step forward from the seat to get to a kneeler. It was fairly easy to take a seat in the centre if the faithful were sitting (go in front), standing (go behind), kneeling (step over the legs), or a combination thereof (do a sort of pew-slalom).
On the occasions I have been late in, I have sometimes assisted from the back, if the only seats are in the centre of a pew (I’m claustro). No biggie: I stand for everything except the kneeling bits, and for those, I “take a knee” as they say in the Army.
Now for me standing at the back is little different from sitting in the back rows: I find the sea of heads in front of me distracting (major AD/HD). On the whole, I prefer to be in the front and on the aisle. But if I’m late, too bad, so sad. Lack of organization on my part should not result in an imposition on someone else’s.
Sorry for any misunderstanding any lack of clarity on my part caused.