The problem is, you are throwing people’s ignorance of their own faith into the laps of their catechism teachers when the blame should lie with the individuals themselves. Most of the ex-Catholics you are referring to were the ones sleeping through catechism class and having little to do with the Church after Confirmation!
I agree that it’s largely their own fault, but the fact remains that those people are the very ones that we are called to help bring home. They are lost sheep, and as the Holy Spirit gives us opportunity and grace we need to be about it.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. In other words, just because you throw all kinds of effort into trying to educate kids in catechism class, it doesn’t mean it will always work. As I stated above, the Church has obviously been sufficiently catechizing people for 2000 years now since Catholicism is still here.
That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t lead that “horse” to the water though, right?
Certainly there is always the parable of the sower, the seed, and the soils but that by no means makes us arrogant or unrighteous to sow. (Matthew 13, Mark 4, & Luke 8)
Granted the Church is (as you say), “still here”, however, to sit back and ignore the people who need to better know their faith even when they are faithful is about tantamount to not doing whatever part I have to build up the Body of Christ.
I agree that we have an obligation to each other to promote learning and growth in the faith, but I guarantee that most practicing Catholics would be greatly offended(and rightly so) if you told them they need to be re-catechized.
Then they would be wrong. Where has the Church ever taught that we can kick back and coast in our knowledge of the faith or in our capacity to evangelize? Some Catholics have tried that and then been surprised and distressed when their kids come home and begin to question their faith or want to join some fundamentalist church because they make their propaganda sound more Biblical than the truths of the Catholic faith.
Also, there’s an air of arrogance to the whole thing, as though someone needs to be an amateur theologian or they can’t live a holy life in keeping with the tenets of the Catholic Church.
I’m sorry, but I have yet to infer that in anything that I have ever said to another Catholic, and I don’t think that I have ever heard any such thing proposed by anyone else here at CAF. I don’t think that is what you were implying either though.
Frankly, I think most of us are just so very happy to have found that our most holy faith has all these great answers that we are more like giddy kids who want to share something great with all our friends.
There’s also the old “preaching to the choir” dilemma - Most ex-Catholics were not attending mass every Sunday and not participating in any faith formation programs(retreats, Bible study, etc) before their conversion. So unfortunately, those who need this re-catechizing the most(because the first one obviously didn’t take) won’t benefit anyway.
In helping to equip others to provide good answers to those fallen away Catholics, (at least) two good things occur.
- The fallen away person finally gets accurate information as to what they were supposed to have believed all along and either didn’t pick up on, or misunderstood.
- It provides a defense against those fallen away Catholics (and others) who actively seek to proselytize others out of our most holy faith. A situation that is totally unacceptable to a faithful Catholic.
I think it’s important that we don’t fall into the trap our separated brothers and sisters have, beating each other over the head with scripture passages, getting too hung up on specifics, and requiring attendance at additional programs.
I can agree with that. I saw it all the time outside of the Church and we referred to it as “ripping the young plant up by the roots to check to see that it is growing properly”, a practice that will readily kill the plant in question, (in reality a believer young in the faith).
Some adults just want to go to Mass each week, raise a family, work, and die content - we need to respect that.
There are pew warmers in every church, and though I don’t intend to assert here that these people are unfaithful, these folks are also not necessarily doing their part per what the church asks of us with respect to their time, talent, and treasure. There really is no reason to overly “respect that”, especially since the New Testament tells us, “[24] and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,” (Hebrews 10)
Sorry, but I see very little of what you describe as problematic among the folks here at CAF and the others I know who are into apologetics and catechesis.