Jesus.our Lords peace be whit You.
I assume You mean secular people.
I have a strong call to priesthood,have had it for as long as I can remember,but born in a Luterhian family where religius things never was spoken about,I did marrie,and I divorced ten years later,and converted to my true faith and home,the Catholic Church,I can’t be a priest because I am to old by now,50,but God took me to this site,or forum,where I can ansver question,and maybe sometimes help someone. That,and a life whit prayers,I am retired due to depression and panic-atacks,I have all the time to do so. My childred are adoults,and I can’t nor want,to date or get married again,so this is how I practise not ony my faith but my call aswell,knowing very well I am not a priest. So I understand Your feelings. You can do as I do,ansver here peoples questions,or maybe join one of Your Church groups,there are many ways,and if pray,God will point You in the direction He wants You to go so that You can serve Him (and the church) in the way He wants. To me He gave this forums whit all groups,so He will help You. I wish You all the best,and please send my a private message sometime to tell me how it works for You.