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This is for the former Mormons among us. What kind of tactics are Mormon missionaries taught to use? What is their training like at the training center? Are they taught anything about other religions? What is the average Mormon teen missionary thinking when he knocks on your door?
 
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This is for the former Mormons among us. What kind of tactics are Mormon missionaries taught to use? What is their training like at the training center? Are they taught anything about other religions? What is the average Mormon teen missionary thinking when he knocks on your door?
Here’s a link to the new missionary discussion lessons.

library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Curriculum/missionary.htm/preach%20my%20gospel.htm

Be aware that approximately two-thirds of LDS missionaries are lifelong members who have attended substantially more religious education courses than have many Roman Catholics of like age. They attend after-school religious education classes, have ‘family home evenings’ weekly which are supposed to include religious topics, receive monthly home-teaching from a ‘Home Teacher’ (and have themselves spent some time as a Home-Teaching Assistant), and on Sundays have a 50-minute Sunday-School and a 50-minute Priesthood Class. HOWEVER most LDS missionaries have grown up within a close and supportive network of family and friends, often in places predominantly Mormon. They are aware that there is opposition to their church–people place tracts on their windshields, picket the LDS General Conferences, broadcast critiques of Mormonism on Protestant (and now Roman Catholic) radio programs. But the average LDS may not have had much contact with flesh-and-blood critics of Mormonism. Indeed they may have had few if any non-LDS friends or close associates.

It is my understanding that the Missionary Training Center, although it gives some training a rudimentary apologetics, focuses on training these young men to give only a ‘positive’ presentation of the LDS teachings. If they run into ‘opposition’ or resistance to their message, they are advised to ‘honor the investigator’s free agency’ and prayerfully disengage from them. They are NOT to engage in extended argumentation with the investigator. In some cases–where the investigator appears to be very sincerely looking for answers–the missionaries are advised to consult with the Mission President and/or the Ward Bishop (quasi-pastor in an LDS congregation). At this point a more-learned member of the congregation that the missionaries are serving, or a more highly-rained person within the Stake Mission Office (‘stake’ being a close equivalent to a Catholic diocese) will be introduced to the investigator.

THE POINT IS SELDOM TO GIVE A RATIONAL DEFENSE OF THE LDS FAITH. Ultimately, Mormons believe that while their teachings are not ‘irrational’, one can only come to believe in the LDS Church by way of personal revelation. Actually: all Christian apologetics are aimed not at ‘proving’ in an absolute sense that Christianity is true, but that it is reasonable and contains nothing contrary to reason. And, Christians have always taught that faith is a gift.

However, Mormonism is especially leery of the use of reason alone to arrive at the knowledge of truth. Much of the missionaries’ appeal, therefore, will be to emotional experience. “How do you feel about what we have just taught you, Mr. Jones?” And in bearing their testimonies, the missionaries are encouraged to project sincerity and confidence, in a heartfelt and simple fashion. I’ve seen this backfire: because missionaries are told to ‘make eye contact often’ and to speak in a level, calm, but clear voice–this conveys a sense of honesty–one friend of my wife’s called me one day to ask me if Mormons try to ‘hypnotize’ their converts. It seems that one of the missionaries had learned his lessons about ‘eye contact’, voice control, and the probing of feelings a bit too well and got rather obvious about it. My wife’s friend detected the artifice but could not quite grasp ‘why’ they were acting so strangely. I don’t think I succeeded in convincing her they weren’t trying to put her into a hypnotic trance, but she stopped seeing them.
 
I believe that LDS Missionaries going to non-Christian countries get rather extensive training in cultural matters, including religious topics. I’ve seen LDS mssionaries cite some rather extensive material criticising other Protestant denominations, but I don’t think the source of this material was the Missionary Training Center. There is a lot of ‘unofficial’ apologetics material available, some of it of fair quality, a lot of it rather questionable. Many LDS young men and women, knowing that they intend to seek service as a missionary, ‘read up’ on answering LDS critics, but mssionaries tell me they are told to ‘unlearn’ any such material while representing the Church. Obviously, some missionaries disregard such instructions just as some Catholic priests disregard the rubrics of the Mass, but I reiterate: missionaries are not supposed to engage investigators in extended debates about the truth.

If one reads the accounts of missions by returned mssionaries, it seems pretty clear that the main objective of sending these young people out like this is to confirm them in their faith. Missions are a ‘baptism by fire’ for many or most LDS who serve, and I sometimes have the sense that conversions are simply a side benefit. Bearing one’s ‘testmony’ multiple times a week, while living a very regimented and religiously-focused life, causes a great many missionaries to suddenly ‘come awake’ to the truth of their faith in a way that is transformative. In the process, many who serve as missionaries become thoroughly innoculated for life to criticism of their faith. (Of course, not all missionaries serve honorably, some missionaries are disillusioned by their service, and some whose mission was essentially a positive and faith-building experience eventually leave Mormonism anyhow).

I point this out because I think it points up the need to make any Christian contact with LDS missionaries ‘count’: missionaries should come face-to-face with a positive presentation of the Christian gospel (in both deed and word), rather than a litany of critiques of Mormonism. Attacks on Mormonism are often ineffective because Mormons see them as Satanic ploys to divert them from the LDS Gospel. Remember the admonition to ‘look for the church which is persecuted the most–it will be Christ’s Church’? Mormons have a strong sense of their own history and know that they have been ill-used in the past. They expect to continue to be attacked, and perceive critiques as unwittingly doing the work of the Devil. On the other hand—they don’t expect to see the ‘fruits of the Spirit’–kindness, long-suffering, charity, meekness, etcetera–in the lives of we who are still sometimes referred to in Mormonspeak as ‘Gentiles’. Hope this helps!
 
I would suggest reading Isaiah Bennett’s “When Mormons Call”. It covers the 6 major themes that all LDS missionaries are trained to give to people looking into their faith. It goes into some detail in laying out the tactics LDS will use with each of their “scripted” themes, and how to avoid them or them back onto them. Good read. Got me started looking into my own faith too because he makes a big point about knowing your own faith before trying to talk to someone else about their’s.
 
Here’s a tip, next time one knocks on your door, grab a hat look into it and say; “Well what do ya know, God says ‘bugger off before I get my gun’”. 😛
 
The Catholics could learn from the LDS’s in how to catechize their youth, and preach with passion.
 
We have had problems with “teeny bopper” conversions. A handsome young missionary will use his charm to entice a young girl to join up. Often the family is none to pleased. So much for family togetherness…
 
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cestusdei:
We have had problems with “teeny bopper” conversions. A handsome young missionary will use his charm to entice a young girl to join up. Often the family is none to pleased. So much for family togetherness…
You must mean ‘returned missionaries’. Mormon missionaries are not allowed to date on missions nor even be alone with members of the opposite gender. They cannot even wear shorts or swimming trunks, even on their ‘day off’. Strict limits on the sorts of interaction that missionaries can have with single, unattached people of their own age. Even Catholic seminarians, I’m told, are not so strictly circumscribed as LDS members on a mission. And I’m not certain that the LDS church will baptise persons under the age of 18 without parental permission.

Of course, some missionaries break the rules and get into trouble but it’s not common. And of course your phrase ‘use their charms’ can be ambiguous–undoubtedly a young lady might find a missionary an appealing person. But missionaries are not encouraged to entice young women in this fashion and are ‘released’ for ‘inappropriate conduct’ which falls far short of any physical contact. Just getting alone with a young lady, or kissing her, can have serious consequences. Being ‘released for cause’ in the LDS Church can be devastating: one could never hope to rise to any position of particular importance in the LDS hierarchy, and LDS wards tend to be vindictive centers of cruel gossip when such things come up.

There is another problem to which you might be referring–it is called among Mormons and Baptists, the practice of ‘missionary dating’. It is often laid at the door of Roman Catholics as well. It is the practice of dating someone in hopes of persuading them to convert to one’s faith. The leadership of the LDS Church discourages it and in fact discourages the practice of dating anyone who is not an active and faithful member of the LDS Church. I believe that the RCC has similar admonitions, to similar effect: the policy is frequently observed ‘in the lurch’ which is to say that it gets ignored outright.

While one cannot be excommunicated for marrying outside the LDS Church, it is given a dim view, and one can only ‘atone’ for the indiscretion if one successfully converts the non-LDS person. Since Mormons are often abject ‘climbers’ within their church–to a degree NOT seen anywhere else, IMHO–there is very very great pressure indeed placed on getting non-member spouses converted. But this is very different from what you seem to refer to.
 
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cestusdei:
We have had problems with “teeny bopper” conversions. A handsome young missionary will use his charm to entice a young girl to join up. Often the family is none to pleased. So much for family togetherness…
To finish the story, he started dating my niece (1978), they married, she became an apologist for Mormonism. Converted her 2 sisters and her brother.
Now they have 5 kids and live in St George, UT.
So, you see that from one person, now 9 Mormons! + her nieces and nephews make 18 MORMONS.
DO NOT let your daughters communicate with M. missionaries if they are not knowledgeable of their faith.
 
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cestusdei:
This is for the former Mormons among us.
What kind of tactics are Mormon missionaries taught to use?
Missionaries are not taught “tactics”. They are simply taught to teach the Mormon version of the Gospel and to share their testimony. They have a lesson format they are to follow once they have an interested party.
What is their training like at the training center?
The Missionary Training Center in Provo, UT is like a mini college campus. (I had a fantastic experience there, it was a very spiritual experience for me.) They spend most of the day in class studying. Time not spent studying is split among physical activities, meals, spiritual talks, Sunday meetings, etc. The studying is very intense and is based on Mormon theology and foreign language(if necessary). Foreign language missionaries spend two months there. English language missionaries spend two weeks. Foreign language missionaries “immerse” themselves in the new language after the second week and stop speaking english completely.
Are they taught anything about other religions?
Not really, the focus isn’t on debating. Your main task is to get people to pray about the LDS faith and ask God for an answer.
What is the average Mormon teen missionary thinking when he knocks on your door?
He truly believes that he’s doing God’s work. He has intense faith in his religion and he’s trying to share the “Gospel” with you. He is willingly giving up 2 years of his life, even paying his own way sometimes, to share this message. He is intensely devoted to his faith, and to God.
 
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Missionaries are not taught “tactics”. They are simply taught to teach the Mormon version of the Gospel and to share their testimony. They have a lesson format they are to follow once they have an interested party.

The Missionary Training Center in Provo, UT is like a mini college campus. (I had a fantastic experience there, it was a very spiritual experience for me.) They spend most of the day in class studying. Time not spent studying is split among physical activities, meals, spiritual talks, Sunday meetings, etc. The studying is very intense and is based on Mormon theology and foreign language(if necessary). Foreign language missionaries spend two months there. English language missionaries spend two weeks. Foreign language missionaries “immerse” themselves in the new language after the second week and stop speaking english completely.

Not really, the focus isn’t on debating. Your main task is to get people to pray about the LDS faith and ask God for an answer.

He truly believes that he’s doing God’s work. He has intense faith in his religion and he’s trying to share the “Gospel” with you. He is willingly giving up 2 years of his life, even paying his own way sometimes, to share this message. He is intensely devoted to his faith, and to God.
Nicely done post, Todd.

Rev. Jeff
 
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