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terrcatholic
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Mysty,
I dont know if you have ever gone to both masses, but in my single days, the Novus Ordo, or Mass as it was all I went to growing up as there were no Traditional Masses as they were banned, I committed quite a few abuses myself. I talked, laughed in the back of the church and got quite a few phone numbers from single girls, some of whom I dated for quite a while, before I met my wonderful wife, not in Church but totally centered around it. Lets say that to this day the NO mass is prone to abuses, as I was one of those who abused it myself, not to mention the priests and others who were not following the liturgical norms. For me Saturday evening Mass and Sunday was a pick up place, as the entire neighborhood met there for 5PM mass on Saturday, some of the teenagers were already drinking beers in the Parking lot before mass, and then went in and after mass all went into town. The shaking of the hands I feel just again allows the individual to take their mind off of the purpose they are there for. All of these things I have since confessed and feel bad about. I recently asked our Priest why no one ever said anything to us or the kids now in the back, as I am middle aged and he said that he was happy they were there to begin with. So that is where we are today in our Church, the Church happy that anyone even attends. I dont have the answers, but we need to do something as I Love my church and the Pope very much, but I think he may not know exactly what is going on here in the US. Just a thought.
Mysty101:
I dont know if you have ever gone to both masses, but in my single days, the Novus Ordo, or Mass as it was all I went to growing up as there were no Traditional Masses as they were banned, I committed quite a few abuses myself. I talked, laughed in the back of the church and got quite a few phone numbers from single girls, some of whom I dated for quite a while, before I met my wonderful wife, not in Church but totally centered around it. Lets say that to this day the NO mass is prone to abuses, as I was one of those who abused it myself, not to mention the priests and others who were not following the liturgical norms. For me Saturday evening Mass and Sunday was a pick up place, as the entire neighborhood met there for 5PM mass on Saturday, some of the teenagers were already drinking beers in the Parking lot before mass, and then went in and after mass all went into town. The shaking of the hands I feel just again allows the individual to take their mind off of the purpose they are there for. All of these things I have since confessed and feel bad about. I recently asked our Priest why no one ever said anything to us or the kids now in the back, as I am middle aged and he said that he was happy they were there to begin with. So that is where we are today in our Church, the Church happy that anyone even attends. I dont have the answers, but we need to do something as I Love my church and the Pope very much, but I think he may not know exactly what is going on here in the US. Just a thought.
You are certainly entitled to your opinion, but it is norms, not opinions which determine whether or not there is an abuse.