Lost person - update

[lost_person]

Things have not changed. I feel so lost, I keep Praying for Mercy from God but maybe I am not worth helping. My Wife is still not interested in our Marriage and the pain becomes worse every day. I cannot eat or sleep and I feel as though there is nothing to look forward to. I Love my Wife in a way that seems out of touch with today’s world. All I want is for her to give our Marriage some more time. Only the Lord knows what is truly in my heart but I am not afraid because I know I am sincere.
I still have Faith in the Lord and will keep praying. I just feel so lost. My wife is the only person who has come into my life that I feel truly comfortable with. I just NEED to hold her and cry to let the pain out. I want to talk to her so badly and have her tell me that she Loves me.
This experience has made me turn to God out of desperation . But, I know in my heart that even if the Lord saves my Marriage I will not forget and go back to my old ways. This experience has opened my eyes and I want a good marriage but I also want a close relationship with the Lord.
Please pray for my Marriage. My Wife and my marriage are Sacred to me. I get on my knees each day and Praise the Lord and ask him for Mercy. I know that whatever happens will be his will but I keep Praying that he will be merciful. I keep hoping that God wants me to have a mate and not spend my final days alone.

 

[EsclavoDeCristo]

I don’t know what your situation is but I will be praying for you. God is good and His name is Mercy!

 

[iluvmybabies]

Things have not changed. I feel so lost, I keep Praying for Mercy from God but maybe I am not worth helping. My Wife is still not interested in our Marriage and the pain becomes worse every day. I cannot eat or sleep and I feel as though there is nothing to look forward to. I Love my Wife in a way that seems out of touch with today’s world. All I want is for her to give our Marriage some more time. Only the Lord knows what is truly in my heart but I am not afraid because I know I am sincere.
I still have Faith in the Lord and will keep praying. I just feel so lost. My wife is the only person who has come into my life that I feel truly comfortable with. I just NEED to hold her and cry to let the pain out. I want to talk to her so badly and have her tell me that she Loves me.
This experience has made me turn to God out of desperation . But, I know in my heart that even if the Lord saves my Marriage I will not forget and go back to my old ways. This experience has opened my eyes and I want a good marriage but I also want a close relationship with the Lord.
Please pray for my Marriage. My Wife and my marriage are Sacred to me. I get on my knees each day and Praise the Lord and ask him for Mercy. I know that whatever happens will be his will but I keep Praying that he will be merciful. I keep hoping that God wants me to have a mate and not spend my final days alone.

DONT LOSE HOPE! God is listening and is with you He loves you and He will guide you, He knows what is best for you and believe me when His will be done you will not be disappointed! GOD bless and hang in there! Keep your faith high and your hopes strong! Keep your self busy, don’t dwell on the pain, keep living your life as if nothing has changed and before you know it GOD will answer your prayer and things will be the way they should be! GOD bless!

 

[whatevergirl]

*I’m sorry. Your post touched my heart so much–have you thought of putting those exact thoughts down on paper, in a letter format, and giving that to your wife? I think it could be worth a try. *

 

[flyingfish]

Things have not changed. I feel so lost, I keep Praying for Mercy from God but maybe I am not worth helping. My Wife is still not interested in our Marriage and the pain becomes worse every day. I cannot eat or sleep and I feel as though there is nothing to look forward to. I Love my Wife in a way that seems out of touch with today’s world. All I want is for her to give our Marriage some more time. Only the Lord knows what is truly in my heart but I am not afraid because I know I am sincere.
I still have Faith in the Lord and will keep praying. I just feel so lost. My wife is the only person who has come into my life that I feel truly comfortable with. I just NEED to hold her and cry to let the pain out. I want to talk to her so badly and have her tell me that she Loves me.
This experience has made me turn to God out of desperation . But, I know in my heart that even if the Lord saves my Marriage I will not forget and go back to my old ways. This experience has opened my eyes and I want a good marriage but I also want a close relationship with the Lord.
Please pray for my Marriage. My Wife and my marriage are Sacred to me. I get on my knees each day and Praise the Lord and ask him for Mercy. I know that whatever happens will be his will but I keep Praying that he will be merciful. I keep hoping that God wants me to have a mate and not spend my final days alone.

This is not in any way intended to be harsh, but you come across as a very desperate man.

I feel for you because to an extent I have been in your position. And I have to tell you that the kind of desperation, depression you’re describing is very unattractive and probably scary and overwhelming to your wife.

If you want to save your marriage, forget about your wife for now and work on yourself. The depression and not eating need to be dealt with somehow. Can you see a mental health professional for a consultation?

Work on becoming a man your wife will want to be with. Get your mental health in order. B strong, productive, interesting, energetic. Do not come across as clingy, desperate, and otherwise a mess. You may feel like a mess, and you may have a very strong urge to run to your wife to beg and do other such things. Find the strenght in yourself not to.

The problem here is that your wife is your whole life. If she senses that you have nothing going for you but her, she won’t be attracted and will be overwhelmed and scared. Find things other than your wife to live for. Become the kind of man she would want to be around.

 

[WarriorofJesus]

First of all, I would seriously recommend for you to try to eat and get plenty of sleep. It’s very important to eat healthy and have a balanced diet plus getting plenty of rest. If you’re not getting food or not sleeping, you are just worsening the conditions and your overall health.

Second of all, DO NOT LOOSE HOPE! I would suggest that you pray the Rosary in honor of your marriage and continue to do that every single day. Instead of just praying to God for mercy, try praying for other things like telling him to help you and guide you to the answers or help in order to get out of the problem or diffultys that you are going through at the moment. When you pray to the Lord, YOU MUST HAVE A STRONG FAITH AND BELIEVE IN HIM IN YOUR HEART! When you pray, think as if your praying through the heart and communicating to God through your heart!

YOU CAN DO IT! TRUST IN JESUS!