Yes that helps. Thanks
But I guess I have should have mentioned that my relative said we shouldn’t go to Church at all.
Your relative would be wrong. Scripture says that those who miss the assembly of Jesus Christ are those who are His enemies. Let me show you:
Heb 10:
24And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:
** 25Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.**
** 26For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,**
**27But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
28He that despised Moses’ law died without mercy under two or three witnesses:
29Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden under foot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace?**
30For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people.
Note how those who do not attend the Christian assembly, that is to say, the Mass, are those who walk upon the Body of Christ and the Blood of the New Covenant. In other words, they deny the Eucharist and cast it underfoot as an unholy thing.
Now, read some more:
and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace
This is the blaspheme of the Holy Spirit.
Therefore, those who do not attend the Mass commit a mortal sin.
And those who never attend the Mass, commit the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit:
Matthew 12:31
King James Version (KJV)
31Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
Sincerely,
De Maria